Okay, here's the thing, I really like this guy, and I think he likes me too. We flirt a little every once in a while but it's more than you'd expect. We always catch each other looking at one another, usually smiling, but there's one problem. He treats me like sh*t when he's with his friends. I don't understand it, especially because his friend, who has a girlfriend, just constantly flirts with me in front of everyone. We get along and all, but those times with his friends really suck. I also know that he isn't allowed to date for I think two more years, which makes it even worse. What should I do? Should I ignore him? Keep talking to him? I'm confused...
2006-11-16 09:09:37 · 10 answers · asked by Best Kept Secret/Biggest Mistake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he probably does like you, but he is just treating you bad around friends because he doesn't want people to think that he likes you.
2006-11-16 09:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool around him, especially in front of his friends. Sounds like this guy isn't ready for any kind of a real relationship. If he can't be mature enough to admit he likes you around his friends, then he's not ready for you. If you want to drive him crazy, show some interest in someone else when he's around.
Best thing you can do is stop wasting your time and if he's more mature in two years when he's allowed to date, than you can pursue something with him. Until then just be friends and drop the flirting, you're investing too much and getting nothing in return.
2006-11-16 17:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by J_Sunstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't like how he treats you in front of his friends. Tell him that his macho bull he's trying to fake isn't working for you. If we wants to be with you, he has to respect you as a person. If he can't do that -- dump him, there's plenty of other guys at your school and even more at other schools. Always keep your options open -- dating a lot of different people is what teaches you what you like in a person -- this isn't the right time in your life to be tied down to a boyfriend. You should be dating and flirting with a lot of different guys because that's you're going to find out what you like in guys and when you're older, finding Mr. Right is going to be so much easier.
2006-11-16 17:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by anynewideas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still sounds immature, and boys will grow out of it. sometimes... get him alone talk to him about your feelings and make a deal with him if he likes you he needs to be nice all the time even with his friends because it makes you uncomfortable when hes bashing you
2006-11-16 17:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Cristy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say to him"Man stop treatin me like this around your buddies or I'm a pound the heck out of you.You know you like me!And you know what.....I'm not that thrilled w/t you!"
2006-11-16 17:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by D. Fizzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you dont like the way he treats you, if he keeps acting that way then just forgot him and move on.
2006-11-16 17:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by Candy!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to the lesbo ... kk... i liked a girl and i teased her in front of my mates ... and i didnt understand why, but i liked her!!!
It must be just a thing we lads do.... ask him bout it
2006-11-16 17:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give that jerk the time of day
that's just a sign of things to come
2006-11-16 17:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by Paige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever tried breastfeeding twiddlecakes?
2006-11-16 17:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go get him
2006-11-16 17:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by Kramer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋