today, my so called friends are spreading crap about me.. today in art me & a very hot new guy were flirtin alot and they were jealous. and i had a boyfriend while we were fliritin . that day i was going to break ^ with my boyfriend cause i really like this new guy and nikki had the freakin nerve to write my boyfriend a note saying all i did with the new kid!! do u think i should beat her down? she made my boyfriend break ^ with me!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-16 09:08:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 14 the new guys 15
2006-11-16 09:08:50 · update #1
Beat that b!tches @$$ lol good luck!!!!
2006-11-16 09:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Olivia 69♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Monica,
I am sorry to hear you had to go thru all that. But let's look at the bright side.
I think it would be best for you to wipe the whole situation from your mind and focus on your new relationship with your new guy.
Consider this:
1. You were going to break up with him anyway. He is now out of your life, and you do not have to go thru cutting him lose.
2. Sometimes friends can do things that really seem bad, I would just let it slide, unless Nikki continues to push it. You might want to let her know you do not appreciate what she did and she should be ashamed of herself for hurting your now ex boyfriend. Lay a good guilt trip on her and she will probably express that she is sorry and you too can continue being friends.
However, if you do not want to be her friend anymore, remember, always be close to your good true friends, but be closer to your enemy's as you can do more damage and set them up for a good fall.
3. You have a great new guy to get acquainted with, and maybe everything that happened was meant to be.
You sound like a good girl, you are open and express yourself when you feel like it and nothing wrong with that.
Hope I was of some help to you,
Darryl S.
2006-11-16 09:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that! She's just picking up on you because there is something in you that she don't have! I believe your boyfriend doesn't love you because if he do so, he will come to you and ask for an explanation.... don't waste your time on him. But you know what young lady? Don't flirt with boys ok? People will be thinking that you're a flirt and boys in real sense don't like flirt girls. Boys usually play on them like flirt girls do! You'll find it hard to find someone who will be able to take things seriously with you in the future. ok? Goodluck and God Bless!!!
2006-11-16 09:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ fÄtimÄ ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it's not nice that your friend tattled on you, you shouldn't beat her down. You admitted you were going to break up with boy #1 anyways. So get over it, and move on to conquest #2
Your 14 don't lose a friend over a boy, friends are harder to come by and to keep.
2006-11-16 09:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by anjel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be doing that crap in school anyways nothing is secret when your in school crap gets around. and plus put urself in his shoes. would u get pissed if he was flirting with some hot chick?? O_o. oh and just yell at her friend to shut her face and not be all up in the koolaid with ur relationship. if she wanted to suck the new guy off she should just do it and not get mad cause ur talking with him
2006-11-16 09:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by stefanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.
confront her
don't beat her down
if you were going to break up in the first place, this made it easier
and i think your boyfriend has the right to know if you were flirting
plus, it's not crap if it's true.
2006-11-16 09:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say stay cool like she did nothing go there and say to her : hey i just whant to say thanks. you make me a lot easier and i can catch the ney guy !
and do that ! she will freak out when she realised that instead of making problems she helped you ! although it isnt realy true but if you make her think that way you are going to undone every problem you have had with her !
2006-11-16 09:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by Boba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were going to break up with him anyway! But, yeah, you should still whoop her butt for going behind your back.
2006-11-16 09:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to your bf and him know the truth if he really cares about you, he wouldn't not listen to you.
2006-11-16 09:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by scofield24z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those people are NOT ur friends. go find some better ones.
2006-11-16 09:11:19 · answer #10 · answered by Kari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋