My boyfriends roommate "Mike"has been dating a girl "tanya" for a little over a year. In sept she found out she was pregnant and they were really excited about the baby. A few days ago the girl admitted to having a one night stand with a guy back in march. "mike" agreed to take her back mainly because she was having his baby and he wanted to try to make it work. Today I found out she actually has been sleeping with this other guy since March and that she doesnt know if "mike" or this other guy is the babies father. I told my boyfriend but he says that none of our buisness and he tried talking to "Mike" about "tanya" but he wont listen. My boyfriend doesnt plan on telling "mike" that he may not be the babies father. Should I tell him? (I've only known this guy for a few months).
2006-11-16 09:07:08 · 8 answers · asked by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Paige: this isnt me Im talking about but thanks anyways. Ill keep that in mind :)
2006-11-16 09:11:03 · update #1
How do I go about telling him? Usually, when Im over their house there are lots of other people around and she is usually there too.
2006-11-16 09:16:43 · update #2
You told your boyfriend..THATS enough...leave it up to him to tell or not tell his room mate. Personally I feel he should tell him because its obvious this chick is having unprotected sex, which is putting the roomies life in danger. Ah to hell with it...if your boyfriend doesnt tell him...YOU tell.
2006-11-16 09:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
TOUGH situation.
This is really up to her. She isn't still seeing this guy, and is together with Mike now, although what she did was WRONG.
I wouldn't say anything, he won't believe you anyway. Plus, the baby might be his and you could be messing things up for them. I know you feel some responsibility but I would let it lie.
2006-11-16 17:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by Simply_Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that mike should be told but he shouldn't be told by you!!!! It really isn't any of your business even know ur worried which is alright. I think it's better if you let him find out him self cause after all you did try so he can't be mad at u cause ur boyfriend tried to tell'em!!!!
2006-11-16 19:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy deserves to know. No matter who it comes from, someone needs to tell him because if not, this could be devastating in the long run. Not only to the guy but to the child.
2006-11-16 17:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very sad situation. Maby it could be mentioned that he might want to see if the baby is his but I dont think you should really get involved.
2006-11-16 17:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by flesh_of_daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to him and tell him try topull him off to the side or just ask hime if there is time that u can talk to hom when nobody is around
2006-11-16 17:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he has every right to know if the kids his or not.
2006-11-16 17:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by harrison_dm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell him
if he really loves you
he'll understand
he willl be mad though
you'll have to work it out
good luck:]
2006-11-16 17:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by Paige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋