Anyone in a relationship?

Question

How do you know when you can't put up with your boyfiend anymore, like its time you feel its over.

Answer 1

Well I know it from the other anger and when I can't put up with the female in my life any longer. My previous marriage ended after my ex became very addicted to prescription medications. I tried as best I could to help her by speaking with her family members, and doctor but she would do nothing to help herself. She would get so wasted that she ended up putting the dog food in it's bowl in the fridge and the roast beef on the floor for the dog. My middle son lived with us also as I had custody of him. One day she returned home and out of the blue had a freak out fit at this young fella. That was the straw that broke the camels back and I told my boy to pack up and that we were out of there. We moved into an apartment and lived pretty normal live after that, he and I. The only contact that I had after this was when she called to ensure that she would remain on my benefit package at work so as her meds would continue to be covered. I could have made a big fuss and gone after half the house etc., but all I wanted was to life this 150 lbs off my back and by leaving I did so. This story does not end happily however as about 5 years after we split she did end up taking an intentional overdose and taking her own life. So in my life I suppose that I would say that when substances replace me in a relationship is when I knew it was time to move on.

Answer 2

When he's tolally possesive
Thinks only about him
He dosn't support u in anything
he dosn't include u in any type of plans (like suggesting something)
He becomes paranoid
calls u 24/7 or at least 12 hrs a day
When u don't answer he leaves u with an extreme amount of
messages & later comes 2 your house
When he wants to be baby around
When there is constant complaining & dosn't do anything to fix it
When u feel like his mother or his therapist more then a girlfriend
When u have a fight he thinks that the only way 2 fix things is by spoiling u then just talking things through.
When U feel discusted when he tuches or kisses u anywhere
When u feel happy when he's not around in any way

Answer 3

There is just a point where you have to either make the conscious choice to work through something, or let it go.

If you are feeling like letting it go, then you need to evaluate why, and whats not working. If you can't see being able to work it out, then you might need to end it. It will be hard, but it's better then being with someone you don't care for.

Best of luck!

Answer 4

give it time
then if he's still annoying you
spend some time away from him
you might find out that you can live without him
or just the opposite

Answer 5

when all you do is argue over ever stupid thing. All you listen to is stupid sad love songs. All you ever talk about is " What should i do. .... . and ends with i hate him". Sometimes you even cry and hate it when ppl are in love with each other because your jealous of them. I can go on and on.

Answer 6

When you start feeling uncomfortable or, if your asking this question! Or if he doesnt seem attractive to you at all or just gets on your nerves so bad you just wanna slap him

Answer 7

You will just know in your heart. They wont be on your mind ever, you will sleep better and you will be able to do things that you couldnt do before that reminded you of him.