should i worry about him going to vegas with out me???I'm not 21 yet and he's going to sin city this weekend with his two cusions and like 12 friends
2006-11-16 09:03:12 · 22 answers · asked by NuNu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
worrying will do nothing. it sounds as if it is a done deal. if it is - roll with it (you have no choice) just pay a lot of attention to what happens after he gets back.
2006-11-16 09:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by my opinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k nunu just chillax, going to vegas is not that big of a deal if hes not the gambling problem type. I mean like u said he never cheated before so thats a big PLUS already. A relationship is all about TRUST. If you can sit down and tell yourself that you can trust him and know that he wont cheat on you or do anything that would make you upset then let him go because if he really loves you then he will come back first thing saying, "I MISS YOU" seriously if you love him u would expect the same trust from him if u were going away. So relax and see what happens after he comes back. its been 4 years im pretty sure hes a good bf which theres no need to be worried about, so just be a little supportive and see how it goes. Im sure before he leaves to vegas he will have a nice long talk and spend the whole day with you. Good luck, you can reach Doc Chan at alan.chan29@gmail.com
2006-11-16 09:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by Doctor Chan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that you may already know that things may be coming to an end its okay to feel anxious and worried. But you are every young yet and have a very long life ahead of you . Go in with the fact that he very well may cheat on you. You will save yourself alot of greif when he gets back. And if he doesn't cheat on you then maybe when he gets back yuo may want to talk with him and either work it out or break it off. Good luck!?!?
2006-11-18 08:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by Brian R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just want you to know that I went to Vegas with my parents once for 4 days and had a blast and did drink, smoke, sex, or gamble. There's plenty of stuff to do there without doing the typical vegas things....
Now that your hopes are up, it sounds like he picked the perfect time to question your relationship....right before a trip to Vegas with a bunch of girls who are going to Vegas to party. I would say don't worry, just assume things will happen there and that he probably will never tell you....dump him and move on. You're worth way more than that.
2006-11-16 09:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by Coco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want him to go will only cause more problems. But talk to him and ask him to call and let you know how things are. Just be open and honst with him. If he comes back and you find something went on (which you will if something did) then you would break up anyway in the future for the like reason. Just look at it as a test on your relationship.
2006-11-16 09:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have fun!!! Don't wait on him to have fun, if you do then you will be waiting a long time..If you have a problem and he decides what happens then most likeley he is going to have an experience he can remember..not you! Go have fun...and if you are not brave enough then he has sat some fear into you that he can only relieve..go see mom and stay there until after he has had a week alone after he gets back!! Let him see how you have felt with no one there!!
2006-11-16 09:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by littlehawk337 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt anything is going to happen. The girl I like right now is going to vegas this weekend for her ex's birthday and hopefully they don't get back together.
2006-11-16 09:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by devinkoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In such a case, ease urself, what has to happen will happen, if ur guy is meant to cheat he will, dont go frenzy thinkin of what he'll do. He said he doesnt love u anymore,so why dont u love me, oh srry, so why do u care much.
2006-11-16 09:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps that time off from each other may just be the thing you both need. Give yourselves time to miss each other and you never know things may turn for the better when he comes back!! If it doesn't, you know its gonna be difficult for you both! Another thing is,if he really does cheat on you, would you be able to forgive him?
2006-11-16 09:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy but dump him hes not worth all the stress worrying if hes going to cheat especially since he said "he dont know how much he loves you" you'll find someone else!1
2006-11-16 09:08:42 · answer #10 · answered by lita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋