2006-11-16 08:32:29 · 24 answers · asked by lil_chaos85 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I can't speak for all women, but me personally, It was more of a turn on... something about the shy smile, and being worried enough to care about the impression you're making, intrigued me, made me want to know more. I am speaking from personal experience, my hubby of 20 yrs. now. But I was always very "turned off" by brash over-confident males.
2006-11-16 08:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when its a really fine girl being nervous or whatever doesnt matter. She will have decided, with 85% certainty, before you say a word, whether she would be interested in you. Everyone is most attracted to things that are just outside of their 'limits' A really fine girl is more like that than anyone. If thats what you want. Make money, have a lot of really cool friends, become really good looking, or be truely funny. If not, join the real world.
2006-11-16 16:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by Good S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most fine females are b*tches. And most of us like a man to be confident. So if you're stuttering, looking away, or fidgety, we'll roll our eyes and keep walking.
But, for the fine females who grow up and stop being b*itches, we're flattered and think it's cute that we make ya nervous.
2006-11-16 16:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by Just gorgeous dahling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends,if the guy is nervous because he seems so excited about being near me,than that makes me happy and makes me feel special...but if he is nervous to the point where he can't look at me in the eyes,can't be straight-forward and honest with me,or starts getting all jittery in a strange way-that freaks me out!But if the guy who is nervous shows sincere interest in me-that is a turn on...
2006-11-16 16:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it's kind of flattering. I'm not much into traditional gender roles - and I don't see nervousness as weakness in a man. The fact that the guy finds me intimidating - albeit for my appearance - is interesting. As long as you act like yourself - it's fine.
2006-11-16 16:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by Cristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it most cases yes but still do try because if she is kind hearted she will know that you are really trying to ask her and she might find that a compliment. Just try not to show your nervousness try it on a friend first and then go for the real deal. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-16 16:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling that it does, but I'm not a "fine" female so I wouldn't know for sure.
2006-11-16 16:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by RNH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Self confidence is attractive. When you're nervous and unsure it's not so attractive because you're giving off the vibe that you're not good enough to be talking to her. She'll pick up on that, and likely agree with you.
2006-11-16 16:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Sometimes things like nerves, geekiness, shyness, etc. are charming. It depends on the "fine female".
2006-11-16 16:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily; some of them might find it flattering. But, to be honest, I have to admit that I find the fact that you refer to us as "fine females" a turnoff.
2006-11-17 12:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋