I have this guy who i really think I have fallen inlove with.WE both like each other how I know he flirts with me. He has a very good job, good looks and I would say people person. . But heres the thing I am not a preety girl and have a very average job that just keeps me going. I dont come from a well to do family. I am a bit upset about this coz if he wants to get to know me more in the a personal level why dont he just ask me personally make conversations or flatlly ask,right. Now you might ask why dont I ask him after all we both like each other well the hold back is that he is my superior and I dont have the courage or should I say guts coz I am just nothing compared to him.One more thing is that there is this other girl at work that I noticed that he favours more he flirt with me and every thing but I dont see him favouring me. I question this is he one of those jerks? Or hes just nice but he doesnt really have feelings for me. Or disapointed coz i am just a poor girl.
2006-11-16 08:28:57 · 6 answers · asked by jenebee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you say you are nothing compared to him?? Money
does NOT make a person better than another person....in fact,
alot of times the richer person is the worse of the two because
they are use to buying everything.
Also, remember that everyone is attractive to someone. Why do you think you aren't attractive?? Is it because you think you aren't his type?? Well, think of it this way..........maybe he isnt your type.
There could by numerous reasons why he favours this other girl.
It could be as simple as she has the whole "poor me, help me" attitute that SSSSSSSOOO many women take with men and, unfortunately, men cater to this weakness in women.
As far as asking him out........my policy is never date at work.
If it doesnt work out then you have to see that person everyday
and in this case........he is your superior..... he could be a total jerk and make your work life a living hell. I would say stop flirting with him and see what / if any move he makes. If he REALLY likes you then he will come after you and if he is just flirting then he will stop.
Good luck
2006-11-16 08:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you demean yourself is not very attractive and you probably show it in the way you carry yourself. I know what it is like to think maybe somebody is better than you, but really, where you work or what your family is like should have nothing to do with who YOU are. How you look has a lot to do with who you are but I am willing to bet, with your apparent unflattering opinion of yourself, that you don't look bad you just assume you do. If the other girl takes more pride in herself, it is more attractive to men and we don't know why. So here is what you need to do...you need to start walking a little taller, care a whole lot less about what you do and where you came from, take a lot more pride in yourself, and he will probably see in a totally different light. Just dont try to change who you are, only how you feel about the person you are.
2006-11-16 08:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by Cillosis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never crap where you eat.
It never and I mean, never ends nicely. If you started dating your boss, and you got married to him. Would you not think he would hit on the next young girl he hired? Think about that for a minute. You are just available and he's a horn dog, who has no self control. If you want to get some money.... seek "Sexual Harrassment" but have evidence.
2006-11-16 08:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously a PIG. You can do better!
2006-11-16 08:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by lostinbigwoods 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk. You deserve better.
2006-11-16 08:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-16 08:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by chocolate4365 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋