2006-11-16 08:26:54 · 21 answers · asked by readingsingingsleeping 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when i was 21 i dated a guy who was 43. it was nice and ironically we did have lots in common as far as interests and goals in life.
we had alot to talk about so it's not like it was all physical. he was there when i was sad to rub my back and tell me i'd be alright and vise versa. so like everyone else has been saying. as long as you are of legal age you should be fine. as long as you guys actually like eachother, enjoy eachothers company and have much in common then there is nothing wrong at all. that doesnt mean your a gold digger or a player it just means you've found a refined man instead of a childish boy. ;)
2006-11-16 08:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by babyg1rl_22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a way to tell if your guy is too old for you:
his age/2+7
example:
32/2+7 = 23
So that means if you are 23 years of age and he's 32, he's not too old for you
I don't really think this works because my hubby is 13 years older than me and this equation doesn't work with us.
So i don't think there's a "too old"
Exeption: if you are under 18. then everything over 21 is too old for you....
2006-11-16 16:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too old is a few years down the line when you realise you have no common interests. If you are asking yourself the question and not being told he is too old by other people then in your own mind you already know the answer and don't need others to tell you.
2006-11-16 16:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by mazz g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're at least 18 and legal you can date whoever you want. Age doesn't matter when it comes to loving someone. It's all based on your personal preference. If you don't feel like you two can click cause he's so much older then don't push it, just let it be and if things happen then great...just don't care what other people think or say and do your own thing...and keep it legal! Best of luck!
2006-11-16 16:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one thing for sure 20 is too many.Why would an older man appeal to you?Are you 20?well all I can say is if it turns serious,when you are 40 he'll be 60?Those relationships usually end within 5 years.But just to kick it with O.K.Bling Bling$$$$$
2006-11-16 16:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 years is a lot. I would say that's too old for me. My husband is 6 years older than I am, but I am more mature than most women my age. I would have to say that it depends on your chemistry with the guy.
2006-11-16 16:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by toothfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on your age. If you are an adult (over 18) then
there is no "too old". Its all about the way you feel.
2006-11-16 16:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on whether or not you're 18!
I would say in "most" cases, age is nothing but a number and maturity should be the deciding factor!
Good luck!
2006-11-16 16:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by David 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are over 21...not 18...21 I think age doesn't matter. If he's married or almost divorced - stay away. If you are younger than 18 - please move on. You're too young to be with someone that old.
2006-11-16 16:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age isn't a nissue unless you are under 18, if you are under 18 don't try anything with the guy, you could get him in prison for your games.
2006-11-16 16:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋