I have a husband who doesnt seem to be paying attention to me do you have any ideas to help him notice me
2006-11-16 07:32:34 · 9 answers · asked by melnchuks 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Never bathe. Once you start to stink, he should start noticing you.
2006-11-17 04:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by esugrad97 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what kind of attention, it is difficult to live with someone and not pay attention.
Do you mean he doesn't ask you how your day was when he gets home, doesn't kiss you goodbye in the morning or hello when he gets home, if so ask him why he is being so cold toward you especially if this was not the case before.
Brace yourself for you may not like the answer if this behavior continues and you know of no reason for it, like a loss of a sibling or parent, or a close friend, than ask him to fess up and tell you the truth, it may hurt but nothing hurts more than being ignored by the ones you love you have a right to know if his feelings have changed towards you. Good luck oh and leave if he no longer wishes to be part of your life don't cling, it is difficult but for the best. You will be better off honest.
2006-11-16 07:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to give good massages. Buy a french maids uniform, or a nun's habit. Learn what football/baseball/basketball is all about, and sit on the couch next to him with a bowl of popcorn in your lap, and help him cheer on his (and now your) favorite team(s).
Come up behind him when you are alone, and very softly and gently start combing his hair, 'just because you feel like it'.
Tell him how handsome he is. Occasionally praise one of his better traits. 'You take such good care of us.' "You provide very well for this family." "There isn't much I like more than a clean, good smelling man." Or, after he gets out of the shower, go up to him and say "Gimme someof that good, clean sugar, baby."
A good man is like a dog: feed him well, love him well, praise him well. And he will do anything for you.
(Sorry guys. I don't really think of you as dogs.)
2006-11-16 07:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I do, make him a nice dinner in a short skirt, thigh high panty hoes, high heels, and a tiny top. Then treat him to desert. That will help him to notice you. Also, the next time he askes you what is wrong, tell him. Let him know how you feel.
2006-11-16 07:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start getting ready more often if you dont!!! look good!!! n ignore him all the time itll drive him crazy!!! act like you dont care about him either!! if it doenst work then u dont need to be with him look for someone else who would pay attention to you!!
2006-11-16 07:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on something sexy. Turn off the TV and stand in front of him. If he still doesn't notice, put on something even sexier and tell him you're going out- but don't tell him where.
2006-11-16 07:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out to dinner like a date, get all dresses up in your favorite dress, he'll notice you!
2006-11-16 07:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jody 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat him with your personal collection of whips and chains. I guarantee you that will get his attention.
2006-11-16 08:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by flushing06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you pay attention to him????
2006-11-16 08:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by Angie29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋