what should i do !!! the fitness codinator (personal Trainer) totally checks me out when i go to the center to pick up my kids from an after school program i have them enrolled in i think hes hot too but he dosent say any thing to me what could i do to see if its not just like iam the only one that notices i dont want to be a fool but if he is i dont want to be a fool either
2006-11-16 07:32:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like what could i say or do to know???
2006-11-16 07:32:29 · update #1
Use the great guy lines that have been dropped on you - "is that a mirror in your pocket? because I can see myself in your pants" - "do your shoulder blades itch? that's where your wings fell off when you came down from heaven, angel." -- "do you have a little Italian in you? Well, do you want some ?" -- "Could you help me out? I'm here to *pick up* my kids, and they weigh too much. Get it?" or other classic lines.
Seriously, just wave and say hello. Or walk over and say hi. Smile and look him right in the eye. Do that little hair flip thing. Lick your lips. If his IQ is above room temperature, he'll take it from there.
2006-11-16 07:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start casually by getting close enough to him where you have to make eye contact and then start to say hello to him and then wave on your way out with your kids. After a couple time of doing this approach him and strike up a conversation, possibly fitness questions, etc. so that he can see that your not wearing a wedding ring and you can check out if he is. If he is not wearing a ring and the two of you hit it off then start to talk to him more on a personal level. Make sure you keep eye contact with him to let him know you are interested.
2006-11-16 15:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you could do is put yourself in a situation where the two of you are holding a simple conversation, and seif you can 'feel his vibe' while the two of you are talking. If he's a fitness instructor, ask him about his classes, and how he learned as much as he knows about fitness. People seem to always like it when you take an interest in what they do. While talking, if he smiles at you a lot, and seems just as interested in you, there may be something.
2006-11-16 15:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Assuming that he's not married...
The club may has a policy against getting involved with clients. You could try a personal training session with him to get some one-on-one talk time. That might be enough to tell if he's really interested. Good luck.
2006-11-16 15:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may not say anything because he is married!! Look at him, and check him out, and then give him a great big smile. If he doesn't get the hint, then I would say he is in a relationship or he is married. Good luck!!!
2006-11-16 15:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Strike up a conversation with him. Because you have children, he may be assuming that you are married, so he is scared to approach you.
Or, you could hire him to "personally train" you!!
2006-11-16 15:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm very out going so I would ask something like ...
hey sweetie do you check out all the ladies like that or am I special ?
2006-11-16 15:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What u should do is just flirt with him and see where things end up!!!
2006-11-16 15:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Sammi Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are married or he is forget it. If he isnt start up a conversation with him.
2006-11-16 15:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by Krystal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get one of ur kids to go up to him and smack him when ur around...thatyll get his attention
2006-11-16 15:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by nawti969 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋