I am 18 years old.i was adpoted when i was four.my adpotive mother is also my aunt.she and her husband got a devorse.her husband got in trouble and i saw what happend.we went to court and he got put in prison for 8 years.before i was kicked out of my house because my adpotive mother doesnt like me.she abused me all the time she blamed me for her ex-husband going to prison but it wasnt my falt.i live with my boyfriend and his mother who is more of a mom then what mine ever was.my sisters hate me and my brother i havent talked to him.my adpotive mother told every one a different story.so every one that i used to know hates me now also....i deal with my adpotive mother calling my cell phone every day to yell at me and all she is doing is wasting my minutes.i have never trusted ne one in my life becides who i live with now.my adpotive mother told me that she hated me and she underapprecated me...that is why i didnt like her. i would like to know if you have to deal with the same problem?
2006-11-16 07:19:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are just in a bad situation. Families can be cruel. They are supposed to love each other. Someway try to keep your adoptive mother out of your life. Go on with your life with your boyfriend and try to ignore those who put you down and try to make your life miserable. I hope that someday you have a nice family like you deserve to have.
2006-11-16 07:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
purchase a pretend, that looks like the actual component. as an occasion, get sparkling grape juice and positioned it in a real bottle (that has been emptied and crammed in simple terms before time, of direction). that is Nana's own specific bottle of wine. except she beverages all of the time, or rather knows her wine, she'll probable by no ability understand the version...kinda like the teenage ladies that get hammered at a party on O'dule's. Or, you ought to decide to no longer serve alcohol at kinfolk gatherings.
2016-10-22 05:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, this is not the normal family life. i hope you break the cycle - meet a great guy, get married, have children - and always REMEMBER how bad your family life was before you met this great guy - making sure YOU never set this type of life up for your family. it's sad it happened, but at least you know now how NOT to be like them. good luck with your future. also, change your cell number and don't give it out to people you don't want to have it.
2006-11-16 07:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My family is screwed up, too. I used to envy all these families I saw that looked so together and loving. I don't think we get to see all of their problems and they DO have problems! Sort of like you can't know all who are carrying heavy heavy burdens and are in serious pain. I hope all works out for you!
2006-11-16 07:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by MissHazel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the past ...don't let it drag you down with all the idiots you had to grow up with...look to your future and move on..you have had a bad start in life but you can change the rest of it ..all of us have crazy things in our families to deal with but you got more than you deserve..good luck and god bless
2006-11-16 08:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by va8326 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not everyones family is like that but god gave you struggles to make you a stronger and better person and I think that you are going to be very strong and you are going to end up happy
best wishes
my family is disterbed too.
2006-11-16 07:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your cell phone and cut ties with her.
2006-11-16 07:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nowhere near to that extent. I mean, we all have problems but this is too much
2006-11-16 07:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sweetie but I'm sorry for your pain .
2006-11-16 07:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!They just have different stuff they jump each other over.
2006-11-16 07:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋