im very very inexpeienced with women at the age of 29 any tips?

Question

ive only ever been with one woman once and its getting me down she wasa friend who took pity on me i cosider myself to be a nice bloke honest trystworthy but women dont see me than anything more than a friend its crippledmy confidence any advice gretaly apreciated

Answer 1

wow...be sweet, nice, treat them well. well if that dont work with any other girls then try getting into bed with them. show them what you worken with.!!!!

Answer 2

hit on as many women as you can, only have 1 or 2 drinks keep so you keep your sences and loosen up a bit

play the law of averages (The formal mathematical result that supports the law of averages It states that a large sample of a particular probabilistic event will tend to reflect the underlying probabilities. For example, after tossing a "fair coin" 1000 times, we would expect the result to be approximately 500 heads results, because this would reflect the underlying 0.5 chance of a heads result for any given flip.)

It works with everything sales,dating... if you take 100 no's the law of averages proves you will get a yes! have some courage and dont be too sensitive twards a womans feeling untill she shows some sensitivity to you as well, that may help you from becoming the feared and dreaded "friend"

I knew a guy when I was in the Army, an ugly SOB but he would get a different woman all the time. But when you went out with him you noticed that he would talk to like 50 girls in 1 night (no joke) he would get hypotheticaly speaking 49 no's but that wouldnt discourage him, then he would get his yes and there you go. the law of averages. just dont be that drunk creepy older guy hitting on all the young pretty girls.

remember going home alone every night hurts alot more than a few no's

Answer 3

I'm sorry to hear how this has troubled you. I wish I could provide you with the one perfect answer, but the truth is, there isn't "one" - you see, if criterias differ, then so will answers.

I would suggest that you do build up your confidence. Woman are very intuitive people and a lack in confidence will lead her to wonder if you would be mentally/physically able to care for her, support her, protect her, and be strong enough for the both of you. Try really getting to know yourself first. Go out and pursue activities that don't necessarily include scoping for girls. Find out who you are, what you love, what you're strong at. Find out what you're passionate about. Find these things and surely, without even knowing it, you will find your confidence, and with that confidence, who knows what wonderful things you could achieve.

Answer 4

Don't be a nice guy all the time. you have to be an asshole once in a while. women don't respect guys that are nice all the time and don't show a mean strek once in a while. sad but true. no offense toward women, but we all like to be mistreated once in a while and its actually a turn on for some. plus, be positive. don't be all umm, i was wondering if you would umm go out with me or something maybe. that don't work. you have to tell them hey lets go out well have a good time blah blah blah. put the moves on her on the first date. if she sleeps with you then cool if not then respect it but don't stop trying. women want to know that they are wanted. women like confident guys that know what they want and go after it. don't be a kitten be a tiger. follow these things and you should have no problem. being a nice guy doesn't work. trust me i know from experience. plus be a little sarcastic some times. but never ever let them think that youre serious. sarcasm is a fine art and takes a little while to master. but once you do, then women will adore you. never bend to what they want you to be. be yourself.

Answer 5

Being too nice to a woman for too long will generally do that. I've made that mistake many times (befriend a member of the opposite sex, become romantically attracted to her only to find out that we're too good of friends to pursue it any further). Eventually, you're gonna have to be more proactive. Be more bold and daring. In this, you're confidence will shine through and women will see that. It's also very important to bare in mind that you must not be afraid of rejection. You can only miss the bull's eye so many times...sooner or later you HAVE to hit it. Good luck and Godspeed.

Answer 6

you are a nice honest trustworthy guy and youre not getting any sex?? i have many guy friends and they play on these traits to their advantage.Do the same. If you can make a woman feel safe, protected and cared for then youre in. I think the problem is youre too much of a nice guy and not ruthless enough to play women. If so, then why dont you try and find a girlfriend you can care for? expand your circle of friends, try something new, people will see you in a whole new light when you first meet them, then is your chance to show them what you want them to see of yourself (if that makes sense) just go for it

Answer 7

Dont see why you are worrying really,plenty of people are inexperienced with the opposite sex.Besides do you really want a succession of meaningless sexual encounters or 1 night stands,thats not going to build your confidence.If i were you i would join a dating site and see what happens.and by the way not all women want a super stud in the bedroom,tenderness and taking your time are good as well

Answer 8

don't be like a friend or someone women can talk to. go into a nightclub, be confident act like you own the place and everyone there. don't act cocky or over confident. be respectful airbrush truths (don't tell them you live with your mum if thats the case) tell them you have shared accomadation. quick exercise for you, go into your main shopping area tomorrow around lunchtime. the first pretty girl you see smile at her as you walk toward her. do that a few times and see how many smile back, you'll be suprised. then try it in a bar.

Answer 9

Don't feel alone, I'm 27 and in the same boat, Hard situation to be in but you've got to go on believing that the Girl for you is out there, it's what gets me through. I'm a rookie as well as far as women go, and I have a confidence problem, you have to just try and build up the experience, I understand completely, I understand so much that we could be related! (we aren't!)

Answer 10

You need to have a lot of s e x. Go to some up scale Gentleman's places and pay for it, do it, do it again until you've got it right.

Either that or find a nice woman and settle down with her and spend the rest of your life learning everything you can.

Answer 11

you can do anything and everything in this world and YOU can get anything and everything. it all comes down to belief and effort. if u really wanted a woman you would pull out all the stops and get one, there are 4 billion you know. i think your a genuine guy, you need to find someone that is similar to you and not some tart off the street. try something like dating agencies, you might find someone you like.