I should know, I am one. I recently asked a question, something like "should I give my relationship with ___ another shot, after all this, how will he feel about me?" Well, "blank" just called me and now I'm mad at him, I havn't seen him for a year and all of a sudden he up and calls me. Also, don't you think it's kind of weird that he calls me this day of all days, for the first time in a year, when I start questioning our breakup? I dunno, seems too much of a coincidence... So, your thoughts?
2006-11-16 07:12:23 · 8 answers · asked by Rhiannon 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think everyone is fickle to some degree these days. Our society is all about luxury - your luxuries state who you are. Its not about mere survival, so people easily think they can "do better" and are actively encouraged to do so by society and friends.
So, yes I think women are fickle. But so is everyone else. Its a confederacy of weak identity created by capitalism selling products with social prestige. Thankfully, I'm not like that.
2006-11-16 07:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Normally after a breakup, there's a little bit of denial, or a bit of confusion, or maybe some excitement to get back and look for someone else. But it tends to sink in and when it does, it sinks fastttt and hits you like a ton of bricks. It could take a while to realize, or pretty short to realize what you did wrong. Seeing that he is also thinking of you, I think you should talk to him more often, see how he's changed, because people do change over the course of a year.
The reason why some women are so fickle is because we're always questioning what could've been and what should have been. We always want what's best for us, but with that, have fun too. It's not like we can help it. We just want to know what else is out there, personally.
2006-11-16 07:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by Meg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont quite get just what you are mad at ????? You are fickle, you all of a sudden thought about him out of the blue, then if i have understood you properly, he called you out of the blue, whats there to be mad at. you thought it, he was brave enough to voice it. hear him out and just mabey he was thinking the same thing. good luck.lol
2006-11-16 07:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by smouldering wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol erm!
so what if u aint seen him for a bloody year i would be in another relationship by now!!!!
stop wasting your life with him if u aint ever gonna see him, get someone else who will want to see u everyday!
2006-11-16 07:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any chance he would have seen the question on here or had someone tell him about it??
My thought is he heard somewhere from someone your thoughts.
2006-11-16 07:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not fickle, it's bad enough when men generalise about women, don't you start doing it.
2006-11-16 07:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by Rhapsody 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
still likes you
2006-11-16 07:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
will you marry me?
2006-11-16 07:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by aceofspades2798 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋