2006-11-16 07:06:21 · 33 answers · asked by E-unit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd say it's because
1) she's scared to leave (he threatens her)
2) she thinks he will change (only focuses on the "good times")
3) she feels like she can't do better
4) she has no where else to go
5) has extreme lack of confidence, probably because he beat it out of her
6) has had a bad past, doesn't have many people to turn to or trust
7) is blinded by her "love"
2006-11-16 07:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It's not that easy for a woman who's significant other beats her all the time to just get up and leave. Most of the people you hear about are housewives who have no job so they have no money of there own and most times the man has cut off her contact with her family and friends so she no one to turn to. and then there's always the hope factor- the hope that he will change or that when he says he'll never do it again he means it. Also there's the love factor- the I love him to much to just leave him, deep down inside I know he's a good guy. There's also the fear factor- if they leave him he will haunt them down and do worse damage tot them than he already has. Or if there are kids involved the I don't want to break our family up factor. Or last if they are married the I don't want to get a divorce factor- a divorce would ruin our family. Most women try to get out but it's a hard thing to do. Some just don't know how to get out.It's one of those things that if you've never experienced it you will never fully understand it.
2006-11-16 07:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by naughtygirl0206 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons...we just were studying that in two of my classes...
They're afraid to be alone
They have no where to go
They have no money because the guy controls all the resources
They want so bad to be with that guy and want him to change that when he says he's sorry and will never do it again they believe him
They came from an abusive family so feel that it's okay or normal
They're too weak emotionally
They have had love ones leave them in the past so they don't want to leave ones they think loves them b/c the know the pain it causes
...the list could go on and on...
2006-11-16 07:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by Angela M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many reasons that women stay in abusive relationships. Some of these include fear of being beat more if they choose to leave, financial security, for the kids sake, have been mentally abused to believe that they are homely and nobody else would ever want them, have their loved ones life's threatened. It's sad to think that in 2006 these fears are still prevalent but they have been there forever and will in reality probably be there for eternity, regardless of how much society tries to change things.
2006-11-16 07:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women want to believe the best about the people they love. Most guys know when they do something wrong they only have to apologise and she would forgive and forget. This goes for cheating and beating. No matter how much it hurts they will keep going back. Unfortunately.
2006-11-16 07:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by trini_rocker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is blinded by love. A lot of women end up dating the same type of men over and over. It's called "Beaten wife syndrome". For some odd reason, they wouldn't find the same comfort in an honest loving relationship. Thank God every day i'm not like that. But I've seen it a lot.
2006-11-16 07:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by kim914 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It usually stems from paternal abuse. They feel that they're dependent on the men for survival, as they were on their fathers when they were children, and therefore will try to do whatever he says in order to keep him. They have a lot of deep-seated self-esteem issues that can only be worked out through counseling.
2006-11-16 10:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe Because..
She loves who he was before he beat her.
She thinks she can change him or that things will get better
She has kids with him
They have finances together and she doesnt want to loose any materialistic things.
Fear of being alone and can't get anyone else.
There are dozens of reasons why.
2006-11-16 07:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by trinity082482 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, some women actually prefer a man that treats them terribly. It's this horrible complex of girls who grow up thinking they're nothing and end up with guys that confirm that for them. Very psychologically damaging and most never survive it.
2006-11-16 07:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
look I am one of thous girls that stays with a buy that beats on we-man and granted i love the guy to death but its wrong. women will fall in love easy. The love that she has for the guy is strong and that's all that matters to her. If you like the girl or just really good friends with her TALK to her about it. Tell her it's wrong and u don't like it. Tell her she can find someone a lot better (like u), Tell her she don't need to going out in public all beated up like that. She needs to tell someone about it. its wrong u probably need to tell someone too.
good luck cause your going to need it, and have faith one day she'll find the since to leave the dam bastered
love maggie
2006-11-16 07:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋