i am having loads of problems in my life at the moment..my guy who stays far away from me doesnt even cal me he tels me he has too much stress going on with him and he keeps telin me "we gona meet up in december so why u worried" all i want him to call me and i should cry over the phone and tel him what i am going through but duh... and on top i keep fighting with him each and everytime of the day when we talk online and he really tries to keep me cool down but today it got serious and he told me whenever you have problems you throw beans on me for no reason...i just ended up been rude to him i dont know why m i acting such way to him
2006-11-16 07:05:28 · 15 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Throw beans on him?? What?!
Why has no-one commented on that?!!
2006-11-16 07:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are not happy and not getting what you feel you deserve in the relationship, move on. Life is too short and we spend so much time just fighting and crying and being unhappy and that sort of thing. My boss' wife just passed away yesterday and it makes me think a lot of how we are not taking the time to love and support each other, but constantly fighting each other. What is the sense of living if we make our entire life miserable and painful because we let others disrespect and abuse us? I am sorry, but I don't stick around with anyone who does not make me happy. I want be happy and to leave this earth as a happy individual. I have diabetes now and I will make sure my life is a happy one because I don't know when that day will come when it takes over. If things are not working out, it is time to move on and find your happiness elsewhere. It is not worth it when you find yourself crying because the other person is not making you happy. Learn to love more of yourself. Pray and ask God to give you the strength you need to get pass all that. God bless you.
2006-11-16 15:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naturally people like what they can't have now that he thinks are acting so desperate he knows he got you and doesn't put any effort to it. Try not to call him for two weeks straight no online talk it will be uncomfortable for you but it will be worse for him. If he doesn't call you in two weeks it maybe time to move on.
2006-11-16 15:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit chasing him and let him chase you for once. I wouldn't normally recommend playing games, but in this case it seems like he'll either call YOU up after a while or he wont, and if he doesn't then it's over. Best wishes.
2006-11-16 15:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by Rhiannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club! im dating a guy who is in the military and recently told me he wanted a break...what the f*ck does that mean?!?! im still trying to figure it out. he too said he has a lot going on, and i know he does, and since hes stationed in a different state, it makes it harder. im just trying to busy myself and get my mind off him...though i worry about anything and everything, its EXTREMELY hard not to think about him. but im getting to the point where i figure, he knows where to find me and he knows hes got me wrapped around his finger. if i find someone else, then its his loss. i know this probably doesnt help, but know that i dont even know you and it sounds like we have a very similar problem. p*ss on boys!!!
2006-11-16 15:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of taking responsibility for your problems yourself, you want him to help you.
But he isn't interested. He has his own problems to take care of.
You have to accept that, or else the relationship will be poisoned.
2006-11-16 15:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know it was so hard to read that :o(
why are u only seeing him in december? lol is there a monthly wait on seeing b/f's nowadays lol?
if he aint making you happy dont be together!
2006-11-16 15:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need love and affection from your boyfriend.
you are not getting it, if he's staying away from you. Don't call
or text, it's obvious he is contempt on having fun without you....
FIND SOMEONE ELSE, WHO APPRECIATES YOU !!!
2006-11-16 15:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by The LIZARD of OG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 words love 'plenty more fish in the sea'
2006-11-16 15:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're throwing beans on him, I suggest you don't buy them any more.
2006-11-16 15:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋