meet my father?my family has issues w/that because we did not have a good relationship w/him when we where kids.he left when i was 4...now im in my early 30's.well he just wants to see me cause i was his lil'girl.
2006-11-16 07:01:00 · 21 answers · asked by cindagirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, dont. he left you, u dont need to see him now. his loss.
2006-11-16 07:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by </3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could met him at a safe place, one that if you felt uncomfortable you could leave. I think it would be a great thing for you to meet your dad if you are interested in knowing what he is like and perhaps getting his perspective of why he left. Certainly there would probably be lots of tears shed but who knows you may actually learn a lot about him, you, any other relations that you have been denied because of him leaving. 26 years is a long time to go through live wondering about ones father and I hope that if you do meet up with him that a lot of the questions you most certainly must have had throughout your life as well as now are answered. Best of luck.
2006-11-16 15:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never let others stop you from what you want to do. My family doesn't quite like my father for all the "things" he did to me when I was under 10. I don't remember these things but my family has told me things. I love my father very much. Though I do question him about that, I do respect him because he as been honest with me. We now live almost 1000 miles apart and I wish I knew him better. I am 17 and I miss my father very much.
2006-11-16 15:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by Cool Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would if I was in your position, if only so that I never have that "what if" in the back of my head. The out come could be may things, but one of those out comes could be that you have another person in your life where there has been a void before and while this may not work out the way you might want it to it's better to put your self out there.
2006-11-16 15:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely
2006-11-16 15:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by Jet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i defenitlly think you should meet him. no lil girl can go with out her dad. i am a daddies girl. and i would just die with out him. if you dont youll regret it and never know what chould have happend. just b/c he walked out on yall doesnt men its your fault. he made a mistake, unless it was for a good cause. like you said family issues. he was trying to protect you. go see your daddie.
2006-11-16 15:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by britni h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure...it will probably be awkward, but if you had a child who you never got to see grown up, once you got older wouldnt you be curious as to what she looked like or what kind of person she became?
everyone makes mistakes in their youth....some worse than others, but people grow up and start to see the world in a different light.
2006-11-16 15:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If U think he is harmless .. its ok .. Ppl do like travelling to their past.. sometimes if they thik they havent done right in their past..he may just want to see that U r well inspite of his leaving U.
I see no wrong in meeting him.
2006-11-16 15:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, meet your dad I'm sure when he left there was a wife or woman involved. it was not with you. people change go meet him now that your grown. maybe he will even tell you? however, don't pursue alot of questions I'm sure he feels guilty enough.
2006-11-16 15:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should. You wouldn't be here if it wasn't for him. Don't think about the past, just meet him, so you can see again the man that brought you here
2006-11-16 15:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your biological father and i am sure you want to know why he left i would, you are old enough to make this decision all by your self.
2006-11-16 15:06:29 · answer #11 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋