He has never treated me like an employee until yesterday and it really hurt me should I confront him with how I feel?
2006-11-16 06:55:48 · 15 answers · asked by */-Puss-n-Boots-/* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
did it for two years....sucks....relationship ended....very happy! In much better relationship now!.....you need space....working and living and always seeing the same person ALL the time every second of the day! Drives you insaine!!!!!!!!! eventually you will want to shoot yourself in the head.............
2006-11-16 07:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Working together and living together even if married rarely works. sooner or later hs is going to se you in conversation with another male and blow his top I bet.
I would back his butt against the wall on that one. Now is the time to expalin equality and commitment to him. Not to mention your feelings.
I've know people who at work lived together and frankly it hardley ever works well long.
Most Husband and wife teams at work I've knwn of have ended in divorce sooner or later.
Unfortunately most guys can dish it out but have trouble taking it. For soem reason men feel the right to be friendly with the opposite sex applies to only males at work and like to distance themselves from their wives at work also.
Good luck
2006-11-16 15:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never work with you're bf, it doesnt work, the two things should be separate!!! you could tell him how you feel but at work yo will always be an employee, so maybeyou should change jobs, or look for something new, dont quite until you found something nice, just think about it...
2006-11-16 15:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you two meet at work? Yes, it is wrong to live with your boyfriend and work with him. You two don't get any space from one another. What will happen if he wants to date someone else? Yes, confront him on how you, but be ready for the honest truth! Holla.
2006-11-16 14:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by twilight1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you work directly or in close contact - bad idea.
If you work in different departments and have little to no working contact - its fine.
If you are is employee, get used to the feeling. Work is work, youre not there to be in love, and it would be discrimination for him to treat you any differently than anyone else.
2006-11-16 14:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS ONLY BAD WHEN YOUR PARTNER IS OVER YOU. YOU HAVE TO BE EQUALS OR IN DIFFERENT DEPARTMENTS. OTHER WISE NOTHING IS WRONG WITH LIVING TOGTHER OR WORKING TOGETHER. AND IF YESTERDAY WAS THE FIRST TIME HE TREATED YOU LIK AN EMPLOYEE THERE MUST HAVE BEEN A REASON FOR IT. ASK .
2006-11-16 14:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived and worked with my boyfriend before we got married. YOu have to remember to separate business from personal lives. A LOT of couples cannot do it because it's really hard...we were able to because we both knew that business was business and business isn't personal.
2006-11-16 14:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jen-Jen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes u should confront him and tell him how u feel and just tell him to treat u a lot different because ur more than just an employee
2006-11-16 14:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by whiteboi882002 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get another job. I mean, seriously. If he treats you better than everyone else, you're BOTH out of a job. You live with him. That's enough.
2006-11-16 15:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by Masta Batang Dollar Billz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its a baddd idea to work and live together!! you guys might get bored of each other!! you see its already a problem because you say he treated you different. but then again thats his job and you shouldnt take it badly. but still have both things seperate!!
2006-11-16 15:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋