my big problem is that my dads mom moved with us and now me and my dad argue all the time because she gets me into trouble.She provokes me to get mad when he's not around us and then when he does come home she tells him lies of stuff i didn't do now because of this stuff it's making me flunk school the stress of her is making me distracted i cant focus.Now my vice principal wants to talk to my dad and dicuss whats been going on,and my social workers they said i should tell my dad about whats going on should i tell him about my grandma argueing with me and thats the reason why im failing school.Even when i try to ignore her it still doesnt work she just keeps on fighting with me so theres no way or avoiding her what should i do
2006-11-16 06:54:16 · 7 answers · asked by ashley_davis957 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You definitely have to sit down with your Dad, and explain to him.Did we have this much trouble before Grandma came to live with us. I need to talk to you. Don't forget this must be hard for your dad also, its his mother and no one wants to go against there Mom, especially when they are getting old, Your father may be stressed out also. So you have to get this out in the opening with no yelling and screaming. Good Luck (isn't there any other kids that can take her)
2006-11-16 07:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by lennie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, tell the old bag to kick back and stop lying... then, have a serious, mature conversation with you dad about this, and explain to him the change your grammy has brought to the house. Then, tell your g-ma that her little antics are not only going to get you in trouble, but can get your dad in trouble too bc the social workers. Tell her blatenly that she is ruining your life.. and if she still can take the hint, talk to your social workers and they may have a better, more permanent solution.
2006-11-16 15:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by 920135 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to argue. Get a lock on your door and retreat there.
If this is truly a case of Grandma hassling you, then you should be able to show your dad that you weren't having problems until she moved in.
Just make sure you don't have other distractions that might be causing you problems at school.
Good Luck.
2006-11-16 15:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES TELL HIM WHAT IS GOING ON AND IF GRANDMA WONT STOP AND HE WONT MAKE HER LEAVE THEN YOU NEED TO GO WITH ANOTHER FAMILY MEMBER. IM SURPRISED THAT SINCE YOU HAVE BEEN WITH YOUR DAD AN ONLY PROBLEMS HAVE ARRIVED SINCE YOUR GRANDMA GOT THERE THAT HE WOULD NT HAVE MORE FAITH IN YOU. WHY HE ISNT QUESTIONING 'GRANDMA'. TELL HIM WHAT IS GOING ON... IF IT HELPS TELL HIM AT THE MEETTING AND IF YOU CANT THEN HAVE YOUR SOCIAL WORKER DO IT.
2006-11-16 15:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you go to that meeting then tell them whats going on. Maybe things will work out for the best for you. You need to at least address the situation. You do not need to be going thru any kind of abuse.
2006-11-16 15:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by homie_j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WoW! Your grandma sucks. Grandma's are supposed to love you and adore you. What are you doing to the poor lady? ;)
2006-11-16 14:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by trinity082482 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you talk to your dad about this i think you should have evidence on how your grandma is budding in your business,,,
2006-11-16 15:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋