HI? OK, I HAVE BEEN WITH THIS GUY, HE LIKES TO TALK DIRTY.THE PROBLEM IS I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY. I KINDA FREEZE. ITS NOT THAT I CANT. IT FEELS, WIERD.
WHAT KIND OF WORDS OR PHRASES GET A MAN GOIN?
HELP!!!
2006-11-16 06:49:57 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't reveal my secrets, but a few of the phrases I have been known to whisper have been:
"You feel so good."
"F*ck me harder."
"You're so hard, I want that d*ck in me."
"God, you're making me wet.."
"You're so big...slide it in deep.."
"Pound me!!!"
"You're rock hard...and I'm tight as hell...f*ck me rough.."
Yeah...use some of those phrases. They usually work.
2006-11-16 07:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 12⤊ 0⤋
Talk Dirty In Bed
2016-12-15 08:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the best way to learn is to watch some porn to get the general idea. Don't be an actress and copy them exactly. Say whatever you feel comfortable with like "I want you to ______ my ______." or "I love feeling your ______" or "I love it when you _______." It might feel strange saying the words at first. When you are by yourself say the words out loud several times so it doesn't feel so awkward anymore, and you don't stutter or trip over them. Whisper it into his ear sexily to say it while you are having sex.
Once you get over the initial weirdness of saying words like that it will get easier and easier for you. You are just not used to speaking like that and it might feel kind of silly at first. But I'm sure his reaction to it will give you the confidence that you are doing something right.
2006-11-16 06:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he's pleased with it, or it turns him on, it particularly is cool. There are actually not any linguistic rules in the mattress room. regardless of you men like is what you like. you prefer to try against, positioned on stupid outfits, use creams, chocolate, toys, regardless of, it particularly is all good. Masturbation is barely grimy in case you think of of it as grimy. Our catholic upbringing has left some scars, so we could forgive ourselves, and stay as happy creatures. If self excitement is misguided, do no longer sneeze anymore! Love is so surprising. i'm so happy you have one yet another! God bless you in happiness!
2016-10-22 05:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just tell him what you want to do to him and use the dirty words to describe it.... don't just blurt them out....whisper them....slowly and say it sexy.... trust me, after you do it a few times it will not feel weird. I felt the same way you did the first few times I did it, but it gets easier. Just relax and have a good time. Don't concentrate on it, just let it happen.
2006-11-16 07:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by QueenChristine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been through that.I just smile and didn't laugh. Thank goodness I didn't laugh. That was a longtime ago ,I'm now married to that person! I would try to say something like Oh ya baby really, talk more . lol! good luck just don't end up laughing!
2006-11-16 06:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by Monet 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would rather hear how a woman really feeling and really wants... Some of what you hear borders on comical... and that's a heck of a time to break out laughing... Some things are better left unsaid... and enjoy the moment...
2006-11-16 07:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most guys like to hear their girl talk dirty. So, try out a few words or phrases and see how he reacts.
Tell him how it feels, what you want him to do and where you want him to do it.
Say his name, just don't call him the wrong name.
Don't call him "daddy" that is just wrong.
2006-11-16 06:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by laneydoll 5 · 8⤊ 0⤋
I'd give you a detailed answer - but Yahoo Answers Community Standards will not let me!
Instead, let me give you some hints:
- tell him what you want to do to him, in detail (using the dirty words for the body parts involved)
- tell him what you want him to do to you, in detail (using the dirty words for the body parts involved)
That's basically it.
2006-11-16 06:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
My babe doesn't want to hear how his dick makes me feel, he knows. He wants to hear how I would touch, lick an abuse another or how I want him to enjoy and abuse another with me. Dirty talk from either party if said in the right manner = harder orgasm!
2006-11-16 07:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by LilRed 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best thing I can say is just be yourself, if you try to talk dirty when it doesn't come naturally you might ruin the sex, just keep it real.
2006-11-16 07:01:00 · answer #11 · answered by John H 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋