Why do guys make a big deal if a girl is a little bit over weight?

Question

I thought it was all about personality, but apparently i'm wrong...can anybody let me know why :D

Answer 1

Because some males are very foolish and are afraid to look in the mirror and recognize their own imperfections. Myself I would take a female with a little extra (actually I have) weight on her then some bone rack that the mass media is trying to sell as normal. Guys can be hurtful, so can girls regarding others appearances without getting to know them personally. As you age this should become less of a problem but it is still there to some degree in some folks. Foolish people as they might be missing out on meeting the nicest person in their lives.

Answer 2

I can let you know why... actually there are a couple reasons.

Women do not wake up one morning and go from a size 6 to a size 22, it happens over time (same for men). But like it not there are some huge people out there. When their waist went to a size bigger they felt they were just a little overweight. Then more time passes & it goes up another size. People view it as they just put on a little more weight cuz they are comparing it to their last size & not their orginal size. More & more time passes & people continue to do this & they are huge. Others may make a big deal out of it at the first stage cuz like cancer or anything else, this is the best time to stop it or reverse it (detect it early).

Then there is the whole thing of people should not settle until they have no choice but to. You can be the kind, sweet, funny, smart, loyal, romantic & things but you are not the only one on the planet who is. Another person is going to come along with all that plus looks/being in shape & you get replaced.

Finally you have the chemicals. When you see good "breading stock" is does not matter if you are female or male, the chemicals kick in. You see strength, fitness, health, & curves & biology kicks in & your body craves it (since the days of people living in caves).

People who say "size does not matter" or "looks do not matter" lie to others. It most certainly does to 99% of people who do not want to settle for something when they can have better. We just tell people this when it is clear they have settled on being how they are when their is room for improvement.

Answer 3

I agree with some of the people here, women do make much bigger deal than men when comes to weight. I personally as a guy would not mind if a girl is a little or a lot overweight. Granted i would try to get them on diet or exercise if they are extreme overweight but not because i dislike the fat but rather i care about their health and wouldn't want to see anything bad happen to them. I am not shallow or superficial type of guy so overweight really doesnt' bother me at all, but i'm sure it will to some other guys.

Answer 4

In all honesty it's probably the girl in question who is making a big deal about it. A little extra weight isn't the end of the world, but if you feel insecure about your body, then men will pick up on those things too. No one wants to be with someone who is down on themselves all the time. You need to learn to love your own body before anyone else can, other wise the negative thoughts may over run your personality.

Don't forget your are a gorgeous knock out who deserves to be with someone who loves all your curves, and you will some day, just give it time.

Answer 5

Ya poor kid there is nothing wrong with being a little over weight .If the guy thinks there is then you need to look elsewhere for a better guy . Guys are only out for one thing and hopefully you already knew that . Don't do anything with any of them until you are old enough to find the right guy . NOT ME NOT NOW!

Answer 6

I've never had problems. Guys like things they can fondle and i don't mean bones.If a guy can't see past a few extra pounds then he's not comfortable with himself or worried about others talking about his g/f's weight.Guys only go out with the skinny girls cause they want a trophy they can show. If your a confident few pounds overweight girl and happy with yourself then just brush off the guys that can't see past your pounds and the ones that can will be the lucky ones.It all on how you present yourself hold your head high girl and love yourself.Good Luck :)

Answer 7

Personality? Its important in making a relationship last, but neither men nor women say 'wow, that person is really nice I desperately want to have sex with them'.

Most men don't mind if women are a little bit overweight, but they mind a _lot_ if a woman is very overweight. I think the closest analogy for women is height. Most women don't mind if a guy is not that tall, but if he's shorter then them, a lot of women won't date them, period.

Answer 8

i think guys who make a big deal about weight is just insecure about himself. he's probably afraid of what everyone else will think if he's with a girl that is a bit overweight, when really all that should matter is what he thinks. basically he doesn't have the balls to love for the right reasons and he's immature. find a new guy, and one who will love you for you cause trust me, he's out there. get rid of this loser!

Answer 9

For me it depends on the female that's overweight. For me, if the female is overweight and does not keep herself up in personal apperance, hygene or anything such as that then it would be a turn off for me....Of course that saying actually goes for anyone period.

On the other hand the overweight female looks up to par, smelling good, carries herself well, then I have no problem with her at all. I have been involved with overweight females in my past and would do it again.

Answer 10

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