Hey guys, I am just wondering...if you are seeing a girl and things are going great...when is the right time to have the 'exclusive talk'? I have been seeing this amazing guy for just over a month, and I would like to talk to him about taking our relationship to the next level, but I don't know when the right time is. I don't want to scare him off. What do you think?
2006-11-16 06:25:25 · 10 answers · asked by prairiefire_14 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him exsactly how you feel about him. leaving out anything not in the present or near future. and say i would like to be exclusive but i dont want to rush it or pressure you into it because i want both of us to feel comfortable and willing to be exclusive.
2006-11-16 06:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by Matthew H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not a boy but I am going to give you my advice anyway. No No No No No No No!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I know the urge is huge but just wait Have fun with it and see where it goes. If you start talking with him about your "relationship" too soon he might hit the door running. Just wait it out and let it be good. And what is the next level??
2006-11-16 06:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Me, again 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny dont make it sound like your climbing steps its love its a relation ship its like a water bed ups and downs out of no where its not like stairs at all if you think its time to go to the next thing which we all know is its been a month if hes a man hes down and he wont be scared
2006-11-16 06:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The right time is when somebody else is showing interest in you. You'll be surprised how exclusive he wants to be when he thinks he's got competition ;)
2006-11-16 07:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by ben w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy, but i took me and my boyfriend 4 months before he was ready. when i brought it up the first time he said he just wanted to hang out and that was after 2months and then he brought it up. doesnt hurt to try but respect him if he is not ready yet.
2006-11-16 06:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you and your partner are feeling comfortable, and then maybe go out for a coffee and then tell him you want to take it further. Don't do tell him if you feel that he's a bit uneasy.
2006-11-16 06:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, what the f*ck is up Paul Kresitag Heisner's ***??!!!
don't worry girl, he wrote some crap like this on my question too.
2006-11-16 06:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
what's the next level? that doens't make sense.
2006-11-16 06:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by S 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
As soon as you feel is right...
2006-11-16 06:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by Wedding Crasher 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont ever bring it up. thats a buzzkill. wait for him to do it
2006-11-16 06:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by Random Nimrod 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋