My mon introduced me to this youg lady this past sunday at my church. She was very attractive. I called her two or three days later and we talked for a good hour and a half. I extended the invitation to go out and do something but she hasn't even called me once. Is she not interested or what should I do. I haven't a attempted to call her again. All this was just this week.
2006-11-16 06:19:25 · 10 answers · asked by shaqaldi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call her one more time. If you get to speak with her you should ask her out. If she says no, then move on.
2006-11-16 06:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are not like men. They don't develop feelings of attractiveness over time like we do. A man sees a woman and might not think anything of her. But, then he gets to know her and gradually becomes attracted to her over time.
Not so for women. A woman will be instantly attracted to you the moment you meet. She knows if she will sleep with you within seconds of seeing you and will do just that if you know what to do. The other side of that coin is it is a temporary phenomenon. Yes. She probably was highly attracted to you when you met her and would have done anything you wanted (sex, start a relationship, friendship etc.) had you pursued it then and there. However, the very moment you were out of sight, you were also out of mind. By that night, she has forgotten who you were. Probably, when you called her up, she was like, hmmm, who the hell is this weirdo calling me. Oh yeah, didn't I meet him a couple of days ago. She has zero attraction for you now and probably thinks you are a bit of a loser for not doing anything back when she was introduced to you. Let me be clear. You mean NOTHING to her so she doesn't feel any desire whatsoever to call you or initiate anything and will blow you off without a second thought. She might even act as if you are some weirdo stalker. Hell, she could have given you a BJ in the bathroom and will still act this way. You mean nothing to a woman until you are having sex with her regularly.....then suddenly, you are a potential husband and the fun begins.
This is something you need to get if you want any success with women. When you meet a woman and there is a connection, whatever is going to happen MUST happen RIGHT NOW. Or it will never happen. Also, you must be the one to initiate it as women in the western world simply are trained not to do this (it's a totally different story with women from other countries).
2006-11-16 06:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a 50/50 chance on either way. If you haven't spoken to her in two days and the weekend is approaching I don't think it would constitute stalker behavior to see if she has any plans this weekend. If she denies you without offerring a rain date then I would keep it moving. If she's interested she will contact you after that.
2006-11-16 06:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by niknac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about this lady, but I usually never call a guy unless he asks me to...if you talked for over an hour it sounds like she is interested in you.....give her a ring ....she might just be waiting on you:)
2006-11-16 06:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by christy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes a christian lady most likely she wants you to call her try again one more time and see what happens.
2006-11-16 06:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by queendebadow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well give her time. If she doesn't respond by the following week go on with your life and meet someone else. You can't waste your time with someone who doesn't want you.
2006-11-16 06:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably not interested if she was she would call everyday or it's that she's waiting for you to call to see if your interested in heras well.
2006-11-16 06:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by kaniyamakayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well seems that she is not into you and may be she tought you were boring on the phone,but didn't want to be rude and tell you that.
2006-11-16 06:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by realistic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds stupid,,but i can hear her mother now saying girls are'nt supose to call guys
2006-11-16 06:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats your hurry???
2006-11-16 06:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by i_like_bears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋