hi,i am in yr 9 and i am 14 years old, theres this girl in my class who keeps saying i smell bad! and i smoke! and i really do not,she keeps spreading rumors about me and nearly the whole school knows,shes so mean and nasty to me even though i ignore her, it still does not stop and now no1 sits next to me cuz of her silly jokes and i`m only 3 and a half months in that skool,i`m quite new to the school, and people like her are nasty to me ,i havent done anything to her or no1. Shes so horrible to me and embarrasses me in front of every1 and i just dont know what to do i`m a really nice friend to any1, she hates me for some reason, please please help i dont know what to do i need your advice
2006-11-16 06:10:29 · 8 answers · asked by Emily * 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Quotations
put your self in other people shoes. Even she keeps saying whatever she wants, she cannot destroys the person you are interiorly. Let her say whatever she wants it's a free country, don't worry about rumors, maybe she went through the same thing she's doing to you. Keep doing the good things, and people will appreciate you.
2006-11-16 12:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Levi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her totally like she does not exist and prove to the rest of the kids that she is only covering up her own inferiority and personal drawbacks by trying maliciously to pass them over to you. The many thing for you is to never accept the fact that she exists. Just prove to yourself and to others that you are a much more superior person than she is and that she will ever become.
NDS
2006-11-16 07:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by Nikolas S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probaly don't smell that bad, but if you put on some great smelling perfume(fantesy or Live) she will look pretty stupid saying you smell bad. Brush your teeth and try to look good.( you might already) never let this girl get you down and don't let her see your hurt by the rude words. Try to ignore her. She'll get bored and move on.
2006-11-16 06:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by Malory 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she must be jelous of you for some reason. I think you should speak up real loud next time she says somthin like that. If your not too shy and want to make her look like the idiot, then say real loud no! i don't want a cigarette. i don't smoke! leave me alone! You smell! Yea.
2006-11-16 06:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by I like BEER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feel sorry for her, she has issues with herself she has
insecurities with herself, bye acting out at you hides her troubles and puts on a big front, deep down she is not a happy person, still no reason to act out at you, you are a much better person then she will ever be. keep your head up don't let her bring you down to her level good luck
2006-11-16 09:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by g.crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her for the bully she is .If she won't stop talk to a counceler about her abuse.She may get violent so watch yourself.
2006-11-16 10:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by canadarikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best weapons are :
1. not getting upset
2. a sense of humor.
2006-11-16 10:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her. She's a b**** and needs to be shut down
2006-11-16 08:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by boriquagirl_19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋