when he asked me about my past i lied to him but then he found out by himself and now he dosen't trusts me.. he is asking me to figure out a way to let im trusts me
2006-11-16 06:04:30 · 10 answers · asked by R&R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's going to take time. You just have to make sure he knows that you are sorry for lying. Make sure you give him no reason not to trust you again.
But on the other hand, he should be forgiving, especially if you came clean and fessed up (which if you haven't, might be a good time to). He should be mature and do his part. If you guys are staying together then it's about forgiveness, but also trust!
Good luck!
2006-11-16 06:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should've been honest from the beginning about your past-and now, your boyfriend has found out the hard way! I think the best thing for you to do is to apologize to your boyfriend for what you did, take full responsibility for your actions, and admit that you're wrong! Besides, its going to take some time, so give him some space for now!
2006-11-16 06:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope you will never earn it again. You lie once i will never trust a word that comes out of your mouth without seeing it myself. Sorry Better luck next time.
I'm 100% honest with my relationship. My view is... If you dont like me want to be with me or dont like what i have done or what i do ...dont let the door hit you....
2006-11-16 06:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by remailer000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the past is the past he must be real young what the hell if you did it before you met him so what and maybe you didnt want to tell him whatever it was yet]
screw him if he doesnt forgive you it isnt like you have gave him any other reasons right?
2006-11-16 06:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smart guys trust no one!!!
You got so busted. What, did you tell him you were a virgin???
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-11-16 06:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing u do will gain that trust back from him so move on
2006-11-16 06:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by nadaclue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one wants a lier.
2006-11-16 06:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop lying
2006-11-16 06:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he should trust u all u did was lie a little i mean get over it and move on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-16 06:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by sexi girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋