We where going througha though time and she wanted some time away so i gave her two weeks and then out of know where she started staying at my apart again and things where going good except for the fact that i asked her if she was cheating on me or if there was any one else and i brought her EX up cuz that dude is nutz and now she wants me to leave her alone and she said it was over but she says that every time we fight i just want a little help and some gudiance on what to do I Love Her with all my heart and dont want her to leave........Help.......Please
2006-11-16 05:56:12 · 13 answers · asked by Lab Runner 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me she sounds like a loss cause. Most of the time its the women that bring that question up. Sounds to me she doesn't care. Find someone that is good for you and will return the love you give.
2006-11-16 05:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would she get so mad if she wasnt. my boyfriend and i went through this but the other way around. if you keep asking her ?'s like that you are going to push her away. you need to figure it out wheater or not she is worth being with. if you feel that you cant trust her then you need to leave because you cant always get that trust back. my boyfriend and i are now taking a break and he is actually starting to come around dont make yourself available all the time let her know what she will be missing without you there.
2006-11-16 14:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one, you were right in asking her if she was cheating, because if you can trust someone their is no point in being in a relationship with them, you need to tell her this, and if she cannot accept this then she obviously is cheating and you need to move on and move on to someone else, it may be hard but you will find that it will be worth it in the end even if you do love her because it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
2006-11-16 14:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by ♥PopLock&DropIt♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wanted some time apart. This is the first step in her breaking up with you and YES, she is sleeping with her ex boyfriend now do you have any self respect and will you dump her? That's the real question.
2006-11-16 13:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such drama! Such raging emotions! She said to leave her alone and that it was over. I'm sure if you go through your same begging pleading "I love you I'm sorry" routine for the next few days she'll allow you back into her life... but if you act up again, she'll want more time away and then you'll have to go through your same begging pleading "I love you I'm sorry" routine again and again.
Love, huh?
2006-11-16 14:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe at the time that she wantted her space. she needed to figure if she really wantted you or if she was done with you. then when she came she knew she wantted you and then you went and brought up the past again. think about this it is hurd to do at times. i don't care how nuts her ex is, she came back to you she didn't go back to him o.k. now this is what you need to do if you raelly love her. leave the past in the past and start your future together.
2006-11-16 14:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by heathercna22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she got offended when you asked her that, she lied. She cheated. people dont get offended if they arent lieing.
Man up and leave her!....there are wonderful loving women in the world who would never treat you that way. Being in a great healthy realationship is the best feeling in the world!!!!!
2006-11-16 13:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, you should know better than to ask such an insulting question. You should ask yourself that question and then in turn apologize to your girlfriend for having stepped out of line.
2006-11-16 14:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by HGS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldnt have asked her if she was cheating. Just because she wanted space doesnt mean she wanted to see someone. Now she might feel you do not trust her.
2006-11-16 13:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by travelguruette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From her response it sounds as if she may have had a fling. You need to decide whether you can get over that or not. I suggest letting her go if it will continue to bother you.
2006-11-16 13:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by kobisky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋