For the passed 3 days she has not wanted any kisses form me, for me to kiss booboos, or let me hold her. I used to be the diciplinary one, my hubby doe snot belive in it at all, so I let him take over that area, So, is that why she doesn't want anything to do with me? Help!!!
2006-11-16 05:32:19 · 7 answers · asked by bootylicious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She is 16 months old...
2006-11-16 05:54:49 · update #1
u do not state how old the child is---if she is older like maybe pre-teen she is just getting harmones and adjusting nothing to worry about
2006-11-16 05:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know how old your daughter is...but I'm certain that she doesn't hate you...for any reason..I'm assuming she must be young...as you state she won't let you kiss her booboo's or hold her. She is just going through something in he pretty little head...be patient with her mommy...she'll come out of it.
Why is it that one or the other has to be the disciplinary? Seems to me that mom and dad should agree on behavior issues, and punishment should be an equal task between both parents... not given the child a chance to "like or dislike" either parent. If your child is treated equally by both parents they don't become confused or favor one parent over the other. Back up....sit down with dad....discuss what you both agree to be acceptable and/or unacceptable behavior AND what is acceptable and/or unacceptable punishment...and be consistent with your child. Always let your child know that she is loved...no matter what.... She'll be back mommy...don't stress over it...she knows when your upset..even if you try really hard not to show it, which may be causing her to withdrawal. Put things in a normal perspective for her..and she'll be very content with both parents. Have a great weekend.... and don't let this get the best of ya!!!! (do something fun with her).......
2006-11-16 13:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age plays a big part in this answer....b/c you say booboos, I will presume she is quite young and going through the daddy age - this will change many times. And remember, when she is preteen/adolescent and yells "I HATE YOU" you will know you're a mom for real and doing a good job!!!
2006-11-16 13:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by ohkathy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is your daugther? first of all and second your daugther don't hate you she is probably going though a fade and all kids do because I have a son and he is 10 months he hardly want me to hold or kiss him or hug him. all it is maybe your not bonding with like you should be or there is something else going on in the picture thats all I can say. any question email me
2006-11-16 13:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mamita C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it obviously sounds like she's at a small age because u state she no longer wants u to kiss her "boo-boo's".maybe she just doesnt want u to baby her anymore. As she gets older she may shut down towards you even more. but remember it doesnt mean she hates you. she just wants her own space and private life seperated from the family. we all go through it at some point. but right now it doesnt seem like a major problem.spend fun time with her without it being too over-protective or babying her.
2006-11-16 13:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all how old is she....girls tend to go threw weird phases as they are growing up
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2006-11-16 13:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by the_dutchess420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time
how old is she...
u have to tell us how old she is
advice...
im almost 14 and when ever my mom hits me i start hating her even more so dont him ur child!!!
2006-11-16 13:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋