i was seeing this guy 4 the past 11 yrs on -n- off but the in march we finally got together (steadily)i've always loved this guy frm the 1st. time we went out.we were always like secret lovers well any ways everytime i think about him i get butterflies well i thought everything was great i couldnt be happier everyone saw a big change in me.one day he was gonna pick me up but never showed or called i've called at work but he tells them to tell me hell call me back but never does my heart really hurts 4 him!the last day that we were together was great is it me or what?
2006-11-16 05:30:52 · 13 answers · asked by teddybear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to sound mean but, most of the time that's a way of cowardly brushing someone off. Some guys can't face up to a girl when they know they don't feel the same way that they do. So they take the cowardly way out by avoiding you all together and I'm sorry that you got your feelings tied up in this because i know that it really hurts. Maybe if you can get close enough to talk to him to find out why he's doing this you can get some closure to the relationship and move on. Good Luck!
2006-11-16 06:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, I think the challenge for him is over now that he's got you. It was more "exciting" while you were secret lovers... but now that he knows there's no real chase anymore he's probably bored. I'm not saying it has a thing to do with you about why he's bored, some men are just a$$es like that who love the thrill of the chase and the excitement of "what if I get caught."
2006-11-16 13:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by Peach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart 11 years that a long time. You say you love him why you have not marry him, life is too short to be playimg girls. I think you should tell him how you feel.
2006-11-16 13:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being arrogant and extremely selfish. Your feelings are of no particular consequence to him because he is absolutely sure of how much you care for him. It appears that your relationship is a one sided affair. That isn't fair to you. You have to look after yourself, most importantly and give him a hint occasionally that he isn't your whole world and that you can exist without him.
2006-11-16 13:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by HGS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to talk to this guy and make sure that you get all your questions answered be ready to recieve heart breaking news or good news and be ready to move on and find someone who you will not have to beg
2006-11-16 13:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by pretty lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww....That's sad but it sounds to me that he is a jerk because he is probably seeing someone else or he is trying to break it off. I'm sorry and I hope this helped you.
2006-11-16 13:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by kim806 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt respect you as a relationship.
being off and on so long makes him feel no responsibility for you.. i would say as hard as it is, move on.
i've been through this sadly when i was younger
2006-11-16 13:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are like that.
2006-11-16 13:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you better talk to your man before someone else gets him!
2006-11-16 13:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes scared.... to feel what he feels if he feels the same way as you...
On the other hand, did you sleep with him? If so thats maybe what he wanted...
2006-11-16 13:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by greygirl06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋