Okay, the guy that I've been with for about two years, (on and off agian relationship) Is ignoring me. I have no idea why, and he wont tell me, obviously because hes ignoring me. And the only reason I can think of is because of a argument we got into, that i thought we resolved and it wasnt a big one, just that he needs to communicate more and be serious about trying to work on things ... I DUNNO, why would he just all of a sudden ignore me?
2006-11-16 05:28:16 · 12 answers · asked by sun drenched 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that if he doesn't start trying to communicate then it just isn't going to work out. then you'll just need to move on. but try say it more tactfully and make sure you say it in a calm concerned way. don't yell or idk just don't say it in a way that he'll be able to show more resent over. but i really think that's what you should say.
show him that you're in more control than he thinks you are b/c i think he thinks he's got you wrapped around his finger maybe. idk but tell him that you'd like things to work out, but it isn't going to happen if you both don't communicate. there that's a big one. make sure you don't say that "he's" not communicating. even if it is just him. say yourself too. that'll help him be more willing to respond positively. :) i really hope you try this though b/c i think it could really help you guys get through your problems. <3 shanti
2006-11-16 05:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by lesgoracn9@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this is one of the "off" times. If the relationship has been off and on for 2 years, it would seem that he has no interest in communicating or being more serious- he'll go off and ignore you , you both get bored or whatever, and then it's on again. The pattern has been set, so I don't know how you're going to force him to be different. Maybe this whole off-on business is getting tiresome and he's not so willing to play along?
2006-11-16 13:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy who would just ignore you is childish and you should run away from him as fast as you can. He wants you to beg him, he wants to throw a tantrum, he wants to prove you wrong and most of all he wants to dominate you and the relationship.
You should run away from him as fast as possible, you are just dating him right now, imagine what he will do to you if you marry him, will he beat you up just to show you he is the powerful one?.
Be smart girl, you deserve better. WHAT A CONTROL FREAK!
2006-11-16 13:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anna 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you lay down to him? Girls today lay down to guys before they get married wasting their value thinking that guys will love them more. You do not say if you already have sex with him or not. If you did, you just lose a piece of you.
2006-11-16 13:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jesuslovesyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same reason why you would ignore him if he told you something he thought you should work on. tell him something good about himself, to pick him back up, so he doesnt feel like everything he does is wrong to you, that might help
2006-11-16 13:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by singmelies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He want to replace you for somebody without attitude.
Fights or any problem shouldn't exist in healthy relationship. If is bad is bad, enough is enough and time for change.
2006-11-16 13:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to make you mad! Just like now, you are wondering and he knows that. ...and he likes it. Pretend you don't care and you will make him mad because his game is not working! Trust me, I'm a guy and I know this trick!
2006-11-16 13:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be cheating.. look for other signs.
Usually at 2 years if he starts doing this he's either thinking of leaving or cheating... you need to talk to him.
good luck
2006-11-16 13:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u juz gota believe n ur self b alert
2006-11-16 13:30:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is tired of your arguments. on and off relationship is tiresome.
2006-11-16 13:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋