I've been dating this guy for 3 months now, we both feel extrememly connected to eachother & even talked about having a baby/getting married. I know he still cares about his ex-girlfriend, but she is really starting to drive me crazy. She calls me & tells me that he is lying to me & that he has been going to see her to be with her. When I confront him about it he doesn't deny any of it. I REALLY, seriously want to be with him, and when I ask him why he does this his answer is this: Well, we have 3 kids together & I have to be nice to her to be able to see my kids also so she doesn't try to screw me over with child support. I understand completely where he is coming from. As far as I know they haven't been having sex or anything, but should I be okay with this? I can't stand her, I wish she'd just go away and stay out of our relationship. She had her chance & cheated on him several times. I don't want to just leave him, I really think he is "the one." Any ideas to work this out?
2006-11-16 05:25:26 · 5 answers · asked by ialicia2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you trust your man then stand with him...don't get provoke with his ex-girlfriend...now YOU'RE the one with him not HER...
I understand if your man should be nice to this girl so he's be able to saw his children...
listen to ur heart or maybe you can test him little bit =) find out what happen and think clearly...you will get nothing with your anger and jealousy...
If u think that your man deserves to be worth then fight for him...
2006-11-16 05:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by Luna_7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been seeing a guy for 3 months and you are thinking about a baby, and marriage? What the hell is wrong with you?()
2006-11-16 05:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by Saints friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately---children come first and he will have 18 years of still seeing her due to the children---if u can't handle that--then run now
2006-11-16 05:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave that relationship as soon as possible to avoid anymore collateral damage...
2006-11-16 05:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dr. phillip mcgrah
2006-11-16 05:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋