i just dont want to feel the pain i have felt in the past i feel lost this guy is everything i have been looking 4 and more but i scared to put my feeings out there. how do i regain my strength and trust in people in general and how do i move on to this wonderful guy and leave the past in the past
2006-11-16 05:22:18 · 14 answers · asked by southernprincess0607 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is possible to find peace again in your heart and in your mind. Allow yourself the time to heal. Slow things down until your more comfortable. Time, patience, communication and understanding from each of you towards yourselves and each other can help you move past this. You can make it through.
2006-11-16 05:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to fight it wont help you. What you really need to do is to relax yourself and think if this is really what you want, if you´re ready for this. You can be in love, but maybe you´re not ready to handle a relationship. A relationship needs to be built and more than that, you need to be sure that you really want it. Anyway, if you decide that you can with that, you have to know that everything in this life needs risks, and in this situation, you have 2 options, to go with this and have a beautiful relationship and a happy ending or to start a relationship and end it some time after, but hey! that´s what relationships involves. That´s life, to live happy or sad moments. It´s your decision, be responsable, because you can´t only hurt someone else, the most important one is you and your heart. So think about it...
2006-11-16 05:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by illi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know yourself and be secure with who you are. If you are scared in the relationship it's not going to get any better until you have confidence in yourself as a whole individual. Right now you are not ready for a real relationship. Find out who you really are and be secure in that. We all get hurt down the road but no one should be able to break YOU.
2006-11-16 05:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way....I was guarded for so long I would not let anyone in. But you just have to let it down let go of the past and move forward. Have a talk with him tell him about what had happen to you and how you are afraid, take it slow you will be ok we are strong women it will past believe me.
2006-11-16 05:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same is happening to me but i guess that we just going to learn how to trust again just as time goes by and just know that just because someone broke you heart don't mean that someone else will do the same thing everyone is different just try your hardest on trusting you guy and don't be scare of the relationship at all if you two are meant to be together you'll find out soon don't do the same mistakes i made you will regret them jusr try ro trust him and make him know how you feel he'll do his best to understand
2006-11-16 05:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by Crazy Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the worldwide is stuffed with divorced people who enjoyed somebody soooo plenty and it ended angrily, hurtfully and specially circumstances even tragically. it fairly is a bad wager. you will adore back. that is like procuring a dogs who savagely bit you interior the puppy keep. it may never chew you back yet...there are diverse canines there who will never chew you and could love you faithfully consistently. Why even evaluate the only which bites?
2016-12-30 13:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by kennan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read this once "Love as if you have never loved before." It's inspiring. The man you're with now isn't responsible for your heartache, he's been god to you, so dont take it out on him. Don't distance yourself or be afraid to love just because you've been hurt. Forget about the hurt, and love as if you've never loved before! ;)
2006-11-16 05:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by edu_jr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't feel something good....you'll never feel pain. How would you ever feel anything then? Just live life. You don't get any good unless you also get some bad
2006-11-16 05:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by ohkathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not a question of where do you get the strenth... you already have it, you are just scared...
just go slow, don't start fights, that'll send him away, and it sounds like you really like this guy...
fighting is a bad thing...
be good for him, as he's good for you... just go slow.
2006-11-16 05:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a break from relationships for a while. that will help you clear your head an fix the problems that you have. maybe you will enjoy the time alone. take care.
2006-11-16 05:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋