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at the last dance, this guy mitchell asked me to the dance , and i said yes, then he ditched me at the danced, i mean ignored me. so then i dumped him. but he keeps staring at me and smiling at me and trying to talk to me, and that flity stuff, so whats his problem, should i ask him out again???
and what are signs that 12-13 yr, old guys like you?
2006-11-16 05:06:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think that you should have to ask him out because if he really likes you he would'nt have ditched you. i know that it might be hard for you to move on but sometimes you have to do whats right even when you dont want to
2006-11-16 05:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by Tierra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because someone dances with you doesn't mean you can dump them. It's a dance, not a relationship. Chances are he got distracted (he is 12, 13 years old after all), and wandered off. Move on, he ain't no thang.
2006-11-16 13:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhhh! 12 to 13? no wonder! um ok well technically, he's really not ready for comitment. he just wants to crawl in bed with you, well if you know wut i mean. He wants to have sex without commitment. If he really did like you, then dont you think he would've spent the night at the dance with you?
And i dont think there is a for sure way to tell that a 12 to 13 yr old guy likes you. Sometimes they do it in the stupidest ways.
They pick on you, Make fun of your laugh, Just stupid stuff that makes us girls take it the wrong way......
2006-11-16 13:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by ...[♥♠]... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should find out why he avoided you on your last date. If it is a good reason, give the boy another chance. If not, tell him to learn how to be a good date and move on to another boy. Now is the time (the beginning of your dating) to learn what to accept and what not to tolerate. Don't be a self-righteous witch, but don't accept things that you know make you feel bad about yourself or your date. It's a pattern that will only get worse if you allow it.
Good luck.
2006-11-16 13:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't he is starting to sound very creepy and just move on if he ditched you at the dance then what makes you think he won't do it again.
2006-11-16 13:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by YouNyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had problems this "huge". He has already been disrepectful and insensitive in a public place. Let him make goo goo eyes at someone else.
You are just starting out little girl. Lesson one, hang on to your self respect. Lesson two, let them chase you, and keep on chasing you.
2006-11-16 13:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Books are good
boys are bad
I know that you are looking at boys but don't worry you have time yet. Study and do good in school so you won't have to pay for it.
2006-11-16 13:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by funoburgmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really likes you. Can't you see he is trying to show you. Approach him. You could have a good friend or maybe more. Take it slow. Be yourself and have fun.
2006-11-16 13:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a dose of his own medicine. IGNORE him or ask him why he was acting like that.
2006-11-16 13:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by ms.pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN. FIRST OF ALL, ITZ JUS A BOI AND A DANCE. IF HE STARES @ U, DEN MAYB HE WANTZ 2 NO WAT UR THINKIN OR MAYB HE WANTZ 2 TALK 2 U & SAY SRY. IF HE IZ INTERESTED IN U, MAYB HE WILL POP DA QUEST. IF NOT DEN MAYB HE WANTZ 2 GIT 2 NO U BETTA. DO WAT CHU GOTA DO GURL.
2006-11-16 13:21:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋