2 weeks ago a cousins wedding was canceled when he discovered her still sleeping with a former. Now we have little respect for her. Yesterday, we received the original invitaion reprinted with, "We are really going to do it this time!" Now its the holidays and we are very busy. Should we cancel other plans to now attend this "no-respect" wedding day? Or do we continue on with our business?
2006-11-16 04:43:29 · 16 answers · asked by jeffandteneka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
The whole point of a wedding is to go and support your loved one on their special day.. If he still considers this his special day and he is happy then u should try to support him..However now that everyone has rescheduled I think he should understand if some people cant make it now because they already bought tickets or maybe they spent money to plan this holiday event....Be prepared for family members to be split on this issue...U have to make your own decision so do whatever u feel comfortable with in the end!!!!!
2006-11-16 04:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by truth4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be adopting this "holier-than-thou" attitude quite so quickly. Everyone does dumb things at one time or another, the only difference is that some get caught and some don't. If you can truly say that you have "no respect" for the couple, then don't attend the wedding. But if you can find it in your heart to say - you know, everyone makes mistakes, lets move on - then consider changing your plans to accomodate the wedding. Some plans might be easier to change than others, I'm sure the couple will understand if you're unable to attend because of other commmittments. But perhaps you can make an honest effort to put the negative emotions behind you.
2006-11-16 05:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't attend if I was in your position. Especially since plans were cancelled for the first wedding, it shows little respect for your guests to resend the same invite. Show how much you don't approve by flat out not going.
2006-11-16 05:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand the hurt & embarrassment your cousin must have felt, but why would your cousin make this information public?
And now that they have reconciled, it makes his future wife look whorish and him a fool. Could he have been mistaken? If so, he needs to make this right.
I also suggest this couple seek counselling before getting married. They are in r-e-a-l- need of it.
As far as your attendance, you have to decide whether it is important to you to support your cousin & his decison.
2006-11-16 05:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on wether or not this has been an ongoingthing, everyone deserves a second chance but when it comes to 3rd and 4th chances that's just plain dum. If your cousin could find it in his heart to forgive her than I think you should extend him the courtesy of attending. Have fun!
2006-11-16 04:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by carcam24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do fools fall in love? It sounds like your cousin is setting himself up for the let down....but no one will be able to make him see that at this point. If you love your cousin and want to show him you support his decision go, but if you dont care either way....go on with your own business. You will have your chance to say I told you so!
2006-11-16 05:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My honest opinion is that this wedding is to celebrate the love between the couple, not if *you* like them or think thier marriage will last.
If you can manage to move plans I would, don't hold it against your cousin if you think he is making a mistake.
btw, this is not "white trash" things like this happen everyday in any relationship regardless of race or status!
2006-11-16 05:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by *~Mom2aJellybean~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue on with your plans. If he wants to pursue it it's his perogitive I'm with you he is setting himself up for heart ache. besides it sounds like not enough time has passed to work through the issue at first and if you all don't respect her then there no reason for you to attend.
2006-11-16 04:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 15:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by hric 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw that. Holidays with family are far more important than some stupid wedding like this that probably won't last for more than a month. "We are really going to do it this time", huh??? Where do they live, in a trailer in Arkansas???
2006-11-16 04:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋