IVE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR ABOUT 7 YRS. I NO THAT HE HAS NOT BEEN FAITHFUL THRO OUT THE YEARS .BUT WUT CAN I SAY 2 HIM THAT WILL GET THROGH TO HIM.IM TIRED OF BEING HIS DOOR MAT.AND NOW I FIND HIM ON ALL THESE SIGHTS AND TEXT MESSEAGES AND DISTURBING PIX ON HIS CELL.IVE STARTED ACCOUNTS ON THESE SITES WITH DIFFERENT NAMES WITH NO PIX .DOES NE HAVE SUM THAT I CAN BORROW 2 LURE HIM IN FOR THE KILL
2006-11-16 04:40:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why are you allowing this behavior to continue? Youre being treated like a doormat, because you are allowing his behavoir to continue. Its called respect. respecting yourself. setting up boundaries.. Have a talk with him, make him delete all that nonsense. He doesnt respect you... So, set up the boundaries and follow thru with the effect of stepping over the line. Stand up for yourself and grow a spine sister. If, he crosses the boundaries and continues with his bad behavior, then its time to move on. He's ONLY a boyfriend!!
2006-11-16 04:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by Cyndi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just end it with him and take him for all that you can especially if you live with him because by law I believe that your common law married after 7 yrs. Good luck just remember you deserve 10000 times better so end it with him and move on just don't jump into a relationship with someone else too soon because it will be hard
2006-11-16 04:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why bother? Just leave the guy! If you know he cheats there is no point in hanging on or luring him in for the kill. Why not quit wasting your time and get on with your life?
2006-11-16 04:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by shepherd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would not worry about getting him back. I would just get rid of him because it sounds to me like he knows he can do what he wants and there is nothing that you will do about it. If you are tired of being his door mat then quit being it and give him a choice of YOU or THEM. If he chooses them then he doesn't love you anyway so you are wasting your time with him.
2006-11-16 04:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not so sure about the kill thing, But Guys are just like that. They like to hang with other guys and get girl pics. they do that because they want to look good in frount of the other guys.And yes guys love to show off.
2006-11-16 04:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by monpuchi k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the zero and find a hero!!!! This jerk doesn't deserve anymore of your time anymore!!! Get real with yourself and start loving and respecting yourself with out having all that trash around you! You deserve more, believe THAT! Time is short and so is life, so loose him and gain a new self-respect for yourself! DON'T WASTE ANYMORE TIME ON HIM!!!! Do you know within that seven year time period you could've been with someone true? I wish you all the luck and guts to get rid of this sleazy jerk!!!
2006-11-16 04:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by twilight1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb. Easier said than done, but I won't be anyones door mat again either....Woman Power!!!!!! Good Luck and don't waste your time on him, don't lower yourself to his level.
2006-11-16 04:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No just dump him. Revenge won't help. Don't waste any more time on his sorry @$$.
2006-11-16 04:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try & talk 2 him.if he don't want 2 talk say bye!
2006-11-16 04:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by a different kind of gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop wasting your time trust me ...and this is from a dude
2006-11-16 04:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by Dr shiznet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋