I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. i'm 24 and he's 27.. But anymore he seems like he doesn't even want to be with me even though he swears he does. like lastnight I asked him to come out to my house and spend some time with me after he was done shooting in pool leauge. He said he didn't know. Well he never called while he was gone and I didn't talk to him untill 1am. He told me he went to another bar to shoot pool. in wich I know he did cause he does every week. I told him that I wanted to spend time with him cause I only really get to see him once a week.. his answer to that was "so whats your point". We never go out anymore unless it's to the bar so he can shoot pool. I bought him a pool table for his b-day and he doesn't shoot on it much. I'm tired of always being last on his list. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm tired of trying things and then they fail. He acts like he doesn't care anymore. Anyone with some advice?
2006-11-16 04:19:03 · 3 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I live iwth my dad and he has to live with his mom due to money issues. I am looking for a place of my own and hopefully things would get better
2006-11-16 04:19:56 · update #1
dont be a doormat anymore... time for a change girl, find someone that will love you and not the bar more !!! ur worth an whole lot more.
2006-11-16 04:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"He's just not that into you."you dont deserve to be last on his list.its true that he doesnt care for you anymore.the best thing to do is let him go.say goodbye to pain.Preserve your heart for someone special who can give you all that love,care,attention,affection and much more that you truely deserve.someone who will be there by you always.dump this guy before he does.You have tried things to bring him back or to reconnect or should i say to bring him closer to you,yet he doesnt care which means He is just a loser.move on and save yourself from destruction coz you are not getting love here.He's not worth waiting for.dont expect him back.You have performed your role really well as his gf,though he is nothin but a loser.You might have thought that this fellow was "The one",but trust me, he isnt "The Only one".you truely deserve someone who can fill your life with plenty of love.So drop this player and find a real man.Good luck.God bless.
2006-11-16 12:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think just from reading that question that he may like you more than you know and he may indeed have stopped by your house /drove past while you were out and just told you that as to going to another bar out of insecurity=don't burn the bridge yeat is my take on that thus far...however being a single attractive/m/29Fla i want to see what you look like ect...=i want you to take a look @ some more pic.'s of me on myspace by going to the ""search icon= my e-mail address is = mr27flrob@yahoo.com...p.s.what state do you live in now w/your dad???p.s. don't foreget to show me some pic's after seeing mine;-] PEACE,ROBERT A.
2006-11-16 12:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by alton r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋