I have been single for quite a few months, my choice, but now I am regretting not dating for so long, I was really disappointed in the last guy I was with and wasn't willing to put my heart back up for display yet, so now I find myself awfully lonely and sad this holiday season. Should I accept a date just so not to be alone,?
2006-11-16 04:12:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's definitely harder to be single during the holidays.
You might as well accept a date because it's often good to get some new stimulation in your life, especially when you're feeling low. But try not to expect anything from the date beyond finding it interesting to get to know another person a little better.
2006-11-16 04:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by liz_in_adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this would be my 2d Christmas because of the fact my divorce and the dying of my mom. rather final 3 hundred and sixty 5 days i did no longer think of i'd make it by way of the two seasons Thanksgiving and yule. On good of that I had only moved into my mothers residing house. I nevertheless had stuff packed because of the fact I had broken my ankle in Nov attempting to pass. i assume it became the week earlier Christmas that i eventually went out and offered a small pre-lit tree and that i surrounded it with issues I had saved from previous Christmas's. I had a small dinner with my brother on Christmas day. That became final 3 hundred and sixty 5 days, that's yet another 3 hundred and sixty 5 days and a sparkling undertaking. possibly i will locate some stable concepts from different persons right here.
2016-10-15 15:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by herrick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is harder if you don't have family to draw your focus away from being lonely. I have been single since Dec 2000, the last guy really did a number and trust is a big issue with me. I have family that has my focus 24/7. When I speak with friends who are dating, they maybe having issues about what family home are they going to for the holidays. I am glad I am single.
2006-11-16 04:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by mzrekko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. It's better to be alone than in bad company. Plan a few get-togethers with your friends or make a trip to see someone you haven't in a long time. It'll pick you up and you'll enjoy the planning and anticipation. Don't forget to buy yourself a special Christmas gift! I used to treat myself to a ring every November and I'd wear it through the entire month of December. I have a few in my collection.... :-)
2006-11-16 04:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by whadda-dingo-gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking of just renting a date for the Holidays. It might work.
2006-11-16 04:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very difficult being single during the holidays. Beleive me, I've been there. Your call on who to date and for what reason.
2006-11-16 04:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by jim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not harder because you are free to flirt with whoever you want, you are not obligated to one person/But if you are feeling that lonely you can accept to date with that guy and see how things are going!Good luck with your plans!
2006-11-16 04:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO ITS NOT HARDER, do you have any idea how much an average guy spends on his GF for the holidays? look for "the love of your life" after the Holidays, during them just look for the hott chick drinking to much "egg nog" you'll have fun
2006-11-16 04:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think yeah it does suck at the holidays by yourself. I don't see why not, get a date. Enjoy the holidays.
2006-11-16 04:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you will only be more miserable because accepting a date for the wrong reasons won't make you feel less lonely. Try surrounding yourself with your family, friends, etc.
2006-11-16 04:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by Elvira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋