b/c he had been joking a lot around with me sexually. The minute I told him, he totally backed off on the joking. He said that he thinks of me as a close friend, yet we remain close, and have been talking a lot, especially recently. I realize that I still have feelings for him. What should I do? Do I have any chance with him?
2006-11-16 04:03:35 · 8 answers · asked by marie_hall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you told him several months ago and he hasn't returned your feelings, I'm sorry, but it doesn't sound as if he likes you in the same way. Good news is he still values your friendship. He still may come around but you have to ask yourself if he does - what was getting in the way?
2006-11-16 04:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy is weird... i don't understand him... he comes to you and flirts and stuff then, when you show him you're interested too, he backs out?
he's got a problem... big one i think
he might be extremely shy when it comes to serious things so he'd rather push you away
or he has some sexuality related problems: probably not very sure about his "performance" or can only find pleasure when the object of desire is not agreeing....
anyway talk to the guy and try to get him to tell you the REAL reason !!!
these "just friends" excuses coming from a man are used only with unattractive women... , but in this case he wouldn't have flirted with you before (or maybe you miss understood and he was actually just joking...,but i doubt that)
2006-11-16 04:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by ╠╬╣ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look @ it this way, if it doens't work out as a relationship can U 2 remain close friends or will sleeping 2gether be worth loosing a friendship??
2006-11-16 04:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by ♥less 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tread carefully on this if you really value his freindship, because you could easily lose it. This happened to me, only I fell for my female freind. I told her, but she "didn't feel that way about me." We were extremely close. She was dating alot and telling me about it. We also worked together. It was the worst thing that ever happened to me. Needless to say, the freindship ended, badly. That was 20 years ago. I still think about her everyday! Please don't be naive enough to beleive you can still be freinds, because you can't. It's just too hard.
2006-11-16 04:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by jim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shocked him. He needs some time to decide what he wants to do now. Just wait for a week or so. Then ask him what he has decided. From what you say here, it doesn't sound like he wants a romance.
2006-11-16 04:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now he knows its all up to him. just take it slow and see what developes. if you push the issue he might back off. read tips on dating and relationships to help you more on this site
2006-11-16 04:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by yummy _ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just maintain your closeness with him,just be there for him always.Chances are good that he may develop feelings for you.
2006-11-16 04:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not considering you told him a long time ago and he hasn't done any thing about it
2006-11-16 04:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by amber r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋