I met this guy which is really good the thing is hes 20 and im 16 but he thinks im 19 and we known each other for a couple of weeks and now hes in love with me and he wants to marry me and its getting out of hand and i dont know what to do someone help me please!!1!
2006-11-16 03:50:21 · 6 answers · asked by rae09_rae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to tell him as soon as possible!
2006-11-16 03:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth.
At 20, with you being 16...a REAL man would RUN RUN RUN
Just as fast as he can.
And you need him to run....Once he's gone on his merry way...you need to start dating boys your own age and stop lying about your age to guys. It is NOT fair to the men you lie to..if for nothing more than the fact that you can get them in a lot of trouble.
And, its not safe for you....Because then you end up in situations that you can not control properly...like this one.
I know you probably wont take my advice...my 16 year old sister is going thru something similar and I can't get her to listen to me either...but please understand this....I've been there...doing what you're doing....years ago granted...but i've been there, and the choice to lie about your age and date men, instead of teenagers YOUR age...its bad...and can be dangerous. I'm not talking out my a**...i'm telling you this from experience.
Be careful please.
Please tell him the truth, and let him go.
2006-11-16 03:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by Shakira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, a 16 year old you should not be dating a 20 year old. You need to tell him your REAL age.
2006-11-16 03:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by queenzhottie78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you shouldnet have lied, he thought he was talking to an adult, not a child, so the blame partialy rests on your shoulders. second of all you have to come clean and tell him, he wil lunderstand, he mihgt be frusterated, but rightfuly so. be the bigger person and come clean to him, thats all you can do at this point.
2006-11-16 03:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him your not 19 before he gets too involved.
2006-11-16 03:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by specs appeal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to let him a litlle of time
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2006-11-16 03:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋