2006-11-16 03:14:34 · 13 answers · asked by Twiggy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
it's not mature
2006-11-16 03:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by Talking Hat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think shouting and offending someone, even if they have hurt you first is not a good solution. It will only make things worse because people can say things they really don't mean when they are angry. I used to be like that, but my boyfriend has taught me there are many better ways to work things out, without making the issue even bigger than it already is. If you want to solve a problem, don't go that way, if you just don't care, go for it....good luck.
2006-11-16 04:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by ggm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be angry and sin not...that's what the bible says. it's not a sin to be angry, or to yell at someone. the bible says if someone offends you .. you need to tell that person that you are offended and find out if they are still your friend. if the person really is your friend they will apologize and try to make the situation right with you. if not, then do whatever you want as far as being angry and shouting...just be careful of what consequences could come. do you have mutual friends that would be affected? would it bring on more problems that you would rather not deal with. whatever you do, try to be angry and then once you have said your part, get over it and do your best to move on and not dwell on it. that could make you bitter and do you really want to harbor those ill feelings? let the person know you are upset and then go on with life.
2006-11-16 03:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by jamie_0778 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What good does shouting do except to make you hoarse?
You will find if you keep a calm low voice, the other person will soon hear what you are saying. If you treat them with a kind and loving manner, you will be doing what the Bible recommends. Heaping coals of fire upon them. They won't be able to figure out why you are being so nice to them. Forgive them. If you rant and rage and hold a grudge, it won't bother them, but it can eat away at you. You hurt no one but yourself.
Be a bigger person. God Bless You.
2006-11-18 16:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by Evalena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the most part....screaming and yelling doesn't get you anywhere! Take a couple of deep breaths and try and talk calming with the person you're angry with. Let them know how angry you are with words. And if you have children don't do it in front of them
goodluck!
2006-11-16 03:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by cutie girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends who im angry with, if it's some stranger then i'll probably shout back or bring that person to court! but if it's someone i know who's older than me or related to me i wouldn't shout back instead i would say or do something that the person would regret for rest of his or her life!
2006-11-16 20:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happens, it happens. It is never fair to turn unkindness with unkindness. Turn the other cheek, you'll have twice the bruises but the meek shall inherit the earth.
2006-11-16 04:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by tichothewolf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It mostly depends on who it is that hurt me and how they hurt me. Like it was my sibling I'd just rage behind his back to my friends b/c not only does he not know my friends so he couldn't spy on me but if I did rage at him he'd just give me that snotty your so imature remark making it that much worse.
2006-11-16 04:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that you could, but what would it possibly solve?
Do you think that the person who hurt you is going to care? You might as well bring yourself down to their level. Be the bigger person and walk away.
2006-11-16 03:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by Mommy Dearest 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course, it is healthier to show and express your feelings than bottling up. It also lets the person know you are offended.
2006-11-16 03:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i once did to my friend who was giving me **** for wearing abercrombie i just told her to shut up and she pissing me off and i wear what i want in a meanish voice. then i felt really bad even tho she had it coming
2006-11-18 13:41:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋