my gf said , if you love me, convert ... if no, we should break up, and while u think about this, I will have no sex with u until u decide... and meanwhile, she lets another guy flirting with her , to put pressure on me... Tough situation ..!! what would u do if your love your gf, but r unsure about whether or not you will join her spirituality that you u're not used to , to save your love..?:)
2006-11-16 03:04:00 · 9 answers · asked by Roy A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You want to have a relationship with someone who loves you, not with someone whom you love and she doesn't love you back.
If she is acting this way, it's obvious that she doesn't love you, so let her go.
2006-11-16 03:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the first place your girlfriend should threat you like that... it shows that she is so selfish and doesn't think of your feelings..
in my opinion you shouldn't convert for love.. if you want to, it should come with sincerity from your heart not be force by someone..before you decide to convert you should learn more about the religion, the practice and etc.. think carefully before you make decision.. besides she is only your gf have u decided to make her as your wife?? if the answers are no why should you bother to convert unless you decide to marry her..
the next thing she has show you her control ability in your life (QUEEN CONTROL) she force you to convert while she can flirt with other guys?? what kind of a women she is...
think carefully man don't make the decision that will make you regret at the end of the day...
2006-11-16 11:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by Princess G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, leave her. You can't compromise in a relationship especailly if you're not comfortable for it. And for someone who is spritiual, it's kind of weird that their using sex as blackmail. You don't convert then no sex. That's a first. It's not a tough situation. You cannot force someone to do something they don't want to do especially when it comes to "converting" their belief. You convert because you want to not because someone is forcing you by withholding sex. Not worth your time at all buddy. Run and run fast. Don't look back. She's better off with someone else and so are you.
2006-11-16 11:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by Shawn J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were of different religions when we first started dating, he taught me alot of things about his religion and i went into it with an open mind and realized that i really didnt have god in my life and that i wanted to, my husband saved my life and my life hasnt been better or happier than it is now. At first i was doing it for him and our relationship but once i learned so much i realized that i needed to do it for me. We are happily married for 6 months now and have a wonderful spiritual life together! Also, she is not really threatening you or anything, its obvious that her spiritual life is very important to her and because she loves you its also important to her that you try for her, for you and for your relationship. Good luck and god bless.
2006-11-16 11:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by emg2528 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she loved you she would not make you stray from your believe system. She is trying to control you. If she is going as far to flirt with other men, tell her to hit the road.
2006-11-16 11:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. If she uses ultimatums now to get you to do things her way, she'll do it again later. She's too manipulative for my tastes. Move on...
2006-11-16 11:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the 1st dude
2006-11-16 11:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by life_and_ashleyxoxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what sort of love is that if she black mails you. But I know you love her so you don't want to lose her... So... either make up your mind now or she makes up hers first
2006-11-16 11:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. That is an unreasonable request....and this is just the beginning.
2006-11-16 11:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by boredperv 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋