I am in a relationship that appears to work in all the usual ways. The strange thing though is that the regularity of sex has drastically reduced, since we started living together, from sometimes 8 -10 "sittings" per week to a rather clinical once per week.
Further to this I noticed recently that she left the house for work wearing sexy underwear one day, and returned wearing something else.
Should I take that as a hint and start looking around myself?
2006-11-16 03:01:16 · 15 answers · asked by JahMekYa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pardon the word "sitting" it was ment to be funny but some of you don't share my humor. I think the only way I can find out about something like that is if she wants me to antway. Maybe she wants me to. what then is the best way to ask? Should I try to get some proof and do the same thing too without speaking of it? At least then I get to keep the House.
2006-11-16 03:24:59 · update #1
Did she start her period that day?Are you over reacting?are you just looking for a way out?If your not happy,talk to her about it and the two of you come up with ideals on how to fix it.If not,leave.
2006-11-16 03:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Before you do anything, you need to break it off with her first. Why would you reduce yourself to doing the same thing she is doing. If sex is so important to you, then you shouldn't move in with anyone else for a good while. Anytime people move in together, the sex becomes less. There are more important things to worry about usually. You need to confront your girlfriend and point blank ask if she is messing around. If you still feel she is, then you must leave or kick her out. Two wrongs never make a right. You really need to seriously ask yourself what you want, either a relationship based on everything or just sex. Good luck and GOD bless.
2006-11-16 03:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girl leaves the house to go to work in a pair of sexy underwear and comes home wearing something else, then I hate to break to you but she's not going to work. Things like this would make you wonder. Talk to her about your relationship and see where she stands on it before you make any assumptions. If it's not going anywhere then it's time to move on. Plus with the holiday season coming up, you'll feel better knowing that you didn't buy a gift for a girl that isn't feeling you anymore.
2006-11-16 03:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by Shawn J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is lacking in communication. We all need that in order for anything to work.
Well, does she carry clean clothes in her car because of a messy job? IF her job isn't messy, then I would be thinking she's a messing around.
One usually notices changes in a big way. Less affection, less communication, less time together, and now different underwear when she comes home.
DON'T turn into a cheater like her............end the relationship if she doesn't come clean with you.
2006-11-16 03:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take it as a hint to ask her what is going on before you go and be just as bad as what you think she is doing, two wrong never makes a right, end the relationship before you look around, be a decent guy/
2006-11-16 03:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by ladylunamina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has her somebody else at work. If she is returning in 1 thing than she left in then yeah. You should go out there and try to find you somebody else. SORRY!
2006-11-16 03:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a bit dim?
she is up to no good for certian
and i bet the once a week she is having to grin and bare it
go and get a bit of fanjita and if you catch a std be sure to pass it on to the scum sucking whore and witha bit of justice the fella she is knocking off will get it and pass it onto his missus.
good luck loser.
2006-11-16 03:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you keep calling sex a "sitting" i would be prepared to look around a lot more.
Confront her about it.
If your still not sure, the relationship is over
2006-11-16 03:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by specs appeal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell you this but she is cheating on you so look around for somebody else
2006-11-16 03:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time..you have sx more often in the begining and then less often as time goes by
as far the underware thing i dont have a clue
2006-11-16 03:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋