Me and this guy met a while ago and we never really discussed what eachother wanted. I just got out of a relationship and needed some space but never told him I kind of wanted to just sleep with him. He started to have feelings for me. I started sleeping with some guys behind his back because I feel that I can do what I want. He is sensitive and didnt take to this too well. He hasnt talked to me for an extended period of time and i try to at least be friends with him. He doesnt talk to me at ALL!!! Now that he has left me I feel that I need him. He is being mean to me and I am starting to be a ***** back by telling him i dont care if he ever talks to me again. Now i am friends with a lot of his friends and want to know if there is any way I can go about this should I just let it go or just give it time? Is there any way I can get my way out of this?
2006-11-16 02:15:14 · 11 answers · asked by xZDFghfdzS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't type essay dude it is too boring to read this...
2006-11-16 02:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by shashi_s14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him... write him an email or a letter get everything down on paper god even if u dont give it to him it really helps clear ur head...
The best way is to admit u were in the wrong and go from there..
U regret what whta uve done but u'll regret what u dont do even more and u wont know unless u try dont give up just yet chick. Things will work themselves out they always do.
Like my mum used to say to me if its meant to be its emant to be..
Dont pressure him though he's bound to be annoyed at u let him u were in the wron after all just let him know ur there when he's ready to talk
2006-11-16 10:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Zoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but it sounds like you just like whoring around! I mean, what the he1l? You obviously hurt him, and he wants a real realtionship, that you obviously can not give him. So, he needs to move on (which I'm sure he has, so leave him alone), and you need to get over it. Maybe next time, you will think before you go messing with peoples feeling.
2006-11-16 10:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have hurt him really bad. I am sure you mis-led and gave him the wrong signals. If you just wanted a sexual relationship with him you should have been upfront with him from the beginning. He doesn't want anything to do with you because it's easier that way. When you are in love with someone it is easier to get over them when you seperate yourself completly. He doesn't want to see you with other men and now he doesn't trust you.
2006-11-16 10:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by horsecrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you feel a bit guilty ..and simply you didnt admire what you had and now that you realize its just a bit too late ..He seriously loved you so maybe if you change ur way and try to be loyal ,he'll change his mind.....Just tell him that you regreted and want him back if you really want otherwise let him go.
2006-11-16 10:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just needs some time to chew the problem... if he had feelings for you, they won't go away so quickly. don't push, don't worry. let him realize he misses you too, he'll be back. give him some space. good luck
2006-11-16 10:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by Adi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all screwed up, because you didn't tell him the truth in the first place.
Does that answer your question? Right then. Go there and tell him
2006-11-16 10:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by eleni f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, apologize for cheating on him. You don't go out with someone and cheat on them, then say, "Oops, I forgot to tell them that was all I wanted them for was sex." I don't blame him for not talking to you.
2006-11-16 10:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here, i'm going to put it this way...
("you know that i was just sleeping with those other guys to just use them. what?, you wanted me to use you like that?, i thought you liked me!! i didn't want to use you cause i knew you liked me.")
2006-11-16 10:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by ღсяаՀу∙թіхіе∙ժմѕτღ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and see what happens --- if nothing then move on --- he may like you but does not want to know you better
2006-11-16 10:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋