It's one of those, "I shouldn't have hit that, now she won't leave me alone". But seriously, she shows outside my work, follow me on the train, leaves me emails and occasionally leaves weird telephone messages. This girl has serious issues. What are my rights as a man to tell this "twisted" girl to stay away?
2006-11-16 01:30:47 · 19 answers · asked by hiplaque 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Police!
2006-11-16 01:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by King 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It depends how nuts she is. I have had experience with this too, and in my case, luckily I was able to ignore her, never answer her letters, emails, phone messages. When she showed up at my door and asked to use the bathroom, it was an emergency, I even slammed the door in her face. Nothing worked, but eventually she started moving on, and now after EIGHT years, I still only get an email or two every few months.
2006-11-16 01:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by domangelo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
restraining order is the worst thing you can do. you are legally attached by a document for the rest of your life with her. which is probably the drama she wants. and then she wins her sick game that just cant just mind her own business.
you can change your number and email. its usually free.
or you can move to another city and become M.I.A.
these are all the things i had to do. i also cut off all the people that we mutually knew. she somehow still knows where i live. women are psychotic. many great men would be in jail if they did half of what some of these psycho women do.
2013-12-22 08:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't communicate with her. Make sure you tell everyone and anyone about her. Change phone numbers, email address etc. and inform the police. Keep a log of everything she does or says to you - and of each time you notice her.
If this was happening to a woman, society would take it more seriously but men are just as vunerable when it comes to a stalker. They are dangerous people and need to be stopped.
I wish you luck - but please don't hesitate to inform the police.
2006-11-16 01:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by 2dog 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What a mess your in. I know been their done that. I had to move. and lost her for awhile till a "friend" told her where i lived again. Being that you can't shot them Police might be best thing but then you got to look out for the revenge stalking flat tires, sugar in gas tank, keyed cars, and some instances worse case senario of being hurt or worse. depends on how unstable she is. Good Luck.
2006-11-16 01:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by highrange101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Female stalkers are much easier to deal with - just make her your love slave (for a week or two).
In bed, spooge in her eye, demand anal, spank her, pull her hair, make her swallow - anything that she might not like to do in bed.
If she asks you to NOT do any of those things, tell her too bad - do it or hit the road. Be as insensitive as possible about it; suggest that you start filming your escapades.
Repeat as often as needed to get her to hate you. Make a conscious effort to be the WORST boyfriend in the world and let her be the one to break up with you - which will cure her of whatever motivated her to stalk you in the first place, and get some kinky fantasies out of the way at the same time!
2006-11-16 01:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Create an alter ego and stalk her!
If you feel threatened then for sure you can go to the police. Being stalked as a man must be awful and she needs to be dealt with and most probably given some help.
2006-11-16 01:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by tomytiptoes 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This happened to a friend of mine. One weekend and she stalked him for over two years, broke windows, took him to court, moved into an apartment that overlooked his house, cost him thousands.
This is going to sound crazy. He dated a Filipino girl from work, the crazy girl left him a note that Filipinos were dirty and if he continued to date her, they she couldn't go on with their relationship. He did and she disappeared.
2006-11-16 01:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her anything.Leave her alone for some time.If she's not tired of it for like 2 weeks,go make a police report before anything happen.Take care dude.
2006-11-16 01:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by ike mie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just ignore her ....even the stubbornest women can take a hint after a while... if that doesnt work - get a restraintant order on her from your local police.... you did this to yourself ... hope you think hard (not that kinda hard) next time you "hit" something you dont want to keep around...
2006-11-16 01:39:30 · answer #10 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋