All women with small boobs pretty much wear padded bras. What if you dated a woman for 5 years and thought that she had at least a cute bosom... then on the wedding night the bra comes off and bam... only small muffins where there should have been bags of fun... What then? Are you disappointed or lose interest? Is the size that important in turning a man on?
2006-11-16 01:23:02 · 43 answers · asked by reba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I didn't know within that five years, or five months for that matter, something is terribly wrong. But in any case, if a woman is willing to deceive someone to the point of marriage, it doesn't really show she will be truthful for the rest of the marriage.
Now if marriage weren't an issue and it was just having sex with a girlfriend, I'd be disappointed but wouldn't lose interest. I'd simply flip her over. You can't pad your butt. :-)
2006-11-16 01:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it's surprising that after 5 years the man wouldn't know the real boob size, dispite what they may appear. I personally wouldn't pad them multiple sizes, a slight enhancement is okay, but to completely decieve is another. It depends on the guy, anyway. Some guys could care less about breast size, others, are boob men. My boyfriends, fortunately, have never cared much, as I have a small chest. Boobs don't really serve any purpose, so if someone really loves you, they shouldn't care. They are nice to look at for some guys, but you are fully capable of performing all types of sexual acts with or without large breasts, as far as I am concerned. A lot of guys enjoy small boobs, too. I personally think its unfair to have lied to your guy all along. If you love him and intend to marry him, it's probably only fair to confess your lack of a chest, though if he loves you, I doubt he will mind. If he loves you, that shouldn't matter. And, if you are getting married and he still hasn't seen your chest, it is obvious that won't matter because clearly sex and nudity hasn't been an issue let alone something you've come across thus far. Not to mention, I doubt he doesn't know. If he has seen you in a bathing suit, etc, it's probably pretty obvious that your chest has been enhanced in some clothing. Also, when hugging you, I'm sure he can feel that your chest isn't exactly flesh esque, not to burst your bubble! I'd stop wearing such padding bras though. Try victoria's secrets gel bras, they enhance your bust but only minimally. They give the appearance that you have a chest, but don't disappoint when the bra is taken off, because it's not enough that someone can definitely notice. It just boosts your chest. Goodluck!
2006-11-16 01:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that small boobs is disappointing, so long as she is presentable, sincere and fruitful, there are a lot of guys will accept her. Beauty is the the figure of the body, but internal beauty will outshine the external outlook.
I have seen a lot of girls and laides with small boobs but are very attractive and smart, do not feel hurt if someone pass such an unpleasant remarks, most importantly you must accept and happy what you have, what other had may not necessary is the best
2006-11-16 01:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by Hanren R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, I would be really disappointed, not with the fact of the size there, but with the fact that she would be trying to be someone she's not....(ie: big boobed).........she shouldn't try to deceive like that. If someone has big boobs, so be it, act like it, if not, dont try to use the whole "false advertisement" scheme to go about daily life fooling everyone lol. But no, as far as turning on, it depends on the guy. Asking about male "sizes" to women you'll get the same answers, some swear by it, some say about how they use it. Same goes for turning guys on, some are very visual and want a certain way.......some are just concerned on the body language and enthusiasm.
2006-11-16 01:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a man will be disappointed when u have allowed him have a picture of what is not there, for making him have the impression that u big boobs whereas they r not can be disheartening when brought to light.i have never seen a guy who has stayed with a girl for at least 3 months without knowing the exact shape of the lady's boobs, padded or not.
2006-11-16 01:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by ijlafia2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had small boobs before the babies came, and I went a step above padded bras, I had fake boob inserts. My husband (he was still a BF at the time) laughed his head off when he found out. Next time he saw me, he actually held me upside and shook me to see if they would come out. It was hilarious. He was a little disappointed, but he got over it.
2006-11-16 01:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by Kallie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the same way that we men are so worried about pe.nis size you women are worried about breast size. It matters yes, but counts for like 0,005% of the thrill. Unless you are very very very small (98% of women are ok) then DO NOT WORRY!!!
I've been told on Yahoo answers and other sites that p'enis size doesnt matter that much yet something in me still worries. I guess despite what I've told you u'll still worry about breast size.
The truth though is it doesnt matter - in fat it matters more whether they are firm or not - and even that is no big deal
2006-11-16 01:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Years ago, I was told that the perfect breast fits inside a wine glass. Since then small breasts have had their mystery for me.I date someone with small breasts, and I love it, however , she too, wears padded bras, and it's not right to learn of her size on your wedding night, altough, everything is fair in love and war!
2006-11-16 01:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by dominicaquilino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Size it not important to turn on a man, we always go for quality over quantity. More importantly if the guy is committed to marriage this really want be an issue.
2006-11-16 01:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
To some men it is. Some men don't care as long as the women is in proportion, others want the fake boob look. Find a man that likes you for you.
2006-11-16 01:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋