Why is it always so hard to find the guy that cares about u? I just don't understand it. Can u please tell me?
2006-11-16 01:19:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is very easy to find a guy but it is difficult to find a NICE guy ... And even more difficult to find a gyu who cares !
Maybe because people are more supperficial , don't like comittments anymore .... Most people seem not to be so warm anymore , faithfull , romantic ..etc... they forgot how to "buy " a flower , how to make small little presents/suprises ....Generally women still have these needs .... Men usually want to live the moment not thinking on long terme ..... If they would think about the future in a relationship , they would do more things for their women ..... People are not so stable anymore , say things that they don't believe in the next day ....
Maybe that's why
( sorry for my english but it's not my natural language )
2006-11-16 01:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by alina d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The begining of any relationship matters a lot. I think the problem is NOT that guys don't care about you. Rather, the main problem is that you don't follow the correct order in relationship. There're levels in relationship building, if you skip any of those levels there's bound to be chaos somewhere along the line, and this, in most cases lead to break in communication and eventually dissappointment and frustration. For further discussions, contact me through my profile right now. cya.
2006-11-16 09:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a very good tip to find a good guy go to a place were you can do your hobby for instance if it's reading go to a book store make your self cute and I'll betcha he'll come and start a conversation. If you like the shy type you might have to start one with him.
2006-11-16 09:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by Da #1 Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adjust your standards. If you go for the same kind of guy, your always going to get the same kind of relationships. Take a different approach.
2006-11-16 09:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by roman_ninja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because a mans mind thinks about 2 things sex and sports. They don't dwell on feelings. Keep looking.
2006-11-16 09:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im here...i care abt u....who told u that guys r rare...they r under my bed and in bathrooms too
they r everywhere surrounding u...but u cant notice them.
2006-11-16 09:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋