last year I fell in love with my teacher I think he is sb who I want,I thought he was not married ,he paid special attention to me so I
thought he fell in love with me too,he often said :my house...............so I thought he was single because of using the word:my not our house.whenever he looked me his eyes was shining yesterday I saw him with another woman,I can not forget my love but I think she was his wife what do you think?
2006-11-15 23:08:33 · 12 answers · asked by molti119 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a grip, girl what are you thinking.
2006-11-15 23:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by silkieladyinthecity 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal, but it also hinders your learning. Teachers strongly advise against having feelings of friendship between staff and pupils. In a school a teacher is not your friend. On the other hand, among human beings feeling the love of friendship is important for us to be kind to each other. Just keep caring about the teacher but don't single it out, show your love to everyone! It's not called "falling in love" too, falling in love is a strong compassion for a relationship, loving someone is different, you love the teacher you're no in love with them. I have cared for teachers in a school and we would talk between lessons and say hello when passing in the corridor. It only got dodgy last year when a teacher wouldn't leave me alone in class and then said I reminded her of her brother and I was so glad to get moved to a higher english set after that.
2016-03-28 22:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is gonna be hard to hear but I'm going to tell you the truth here. I know it will hurt but you need to know.
* He sees you as a child, not someone he could
date & he never will.
* He paid attention to you as a teacher because
he thought you needed the attention or help to
succeed well at school.
* The house is his it is also hers, he is not wrong
in saying my after all he does live there. If he
said ours it would be a you and him "our" so
he says "my".
* His eyes are just normal honey you're seeing
what you want to see and finding signs that
just are not there.
You need to forget about him, he will only ever be your teacher. Even if he isn't married he will have a girlfriend of his own age.
2006-11-15 23:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by madamspud 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea. You need to pay attention to your studies not studying the teacher. If you are going to a school in the US, you are risking the possibility that this teacher will get fired and/or arrested if you pursue this. Anyone can see you are dealing with some serious parental issues. I'd suggest you get some counseling to help you deal with this before it becomes a problem involving the authorities.
2006-11-15 23:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by Reo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to fall in love , better start moving with your class mates , teacher only want to make love with you , nothing else , now choice is yours , I wish you will take wise decision to maintain your head high without any sorrow .
2006-11-15 23:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go there, its very trickey, and it will bite you on the bum, very hard. You are entering into a very emotional and legal mine field. Avoid it like the plague. Wait to you finish school before dating teachers and do a bit of research to find out their marital status.
2006-11-15 23:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by sunline 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is a teacher, LEAVE HIM ALONE. And he must LEAVE YOU ALONE! He can get into trouble getting involved with a student. And for the fact he is POSSIBLY MARRIED. LOOK FOR SOMEONE YOUR OWN AGE AND SINGLE!
2006-11-15 23:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about what will happen to him if any one even thinks hes acting out of the way w/ a student !!!! I think every one at one time or another has had a crush on there teacher! be his fav. student w/out trying to think you can seduce him
2006-11-15 23:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by karmakrazy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Open your I's and LQQK at your situation! This is your teacher for Chrimeny sakes!!!! What you think is love was really infatuation school girl crushes----
I also use the term MY house too....but I'm also very married-----I also use my maiden name at work-----but I'm very married too!!!
Move on---quit obsessing----get over it----
2006-11-15 23:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie teacher are bad news to date.you want somebody you can trust.Maybe your brothers best friend.
2006-11-15 23:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone, it is wrong for a teacher to be involved with a student.
2006-11-15 23:10:59 · answer #11 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋