I met a guy a couple of weeks ago when I was out with mates, ended up at his house. Since then we have met up loads of times at lease 3 times a week, if not more. Thing is he is 12 years older than me and also going back to live in america in a couple of weeks time but we have this amazing connection and everytime we together it just gets stronger, is it right to keep seeing him knowing he will be leaving soon?
2006-11-15 22:54:41 · 22 answers · asked by Emma W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, keep seeing him. You and him have totally hit it off. Yet no matter how you go about this, ...you and him will have to deal with the fact that he is leaving. Just because he is leaving is not an excuse to end the relationship. Just enjoy your time with him....it will hurt when he is gone, but those are the types of things with which all of us must learn to cope.
good luck:)
2006-11-15 23:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't you keep seeing him?? Even if he does go back to the US and you never see eachother again, at least you spent some time with this amazing person who you really connected with. Why would this be bad? You never know how things will end up. You could see eachother long distance if it's really going that well. And twelve years isn't a big deal, unless it bothers YOU, which it obviously doesn't since you're seeing him!
I went overseas once for a couple months and met this incredible guy. We spent almost all our time together until I had to go back to the US, and then we decided that we wanted to stay together. So we got married and I moved to be with him. We've been married three years and have two beautiful little boys. It wasn't something I planned, wasn't even something I ever thought would happen to me, but it did, and I'm so happy!
2006-11-15 23:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by jenieatworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit down and have a serious chat with him, find out what he wants oput of this as he might just be having a good time whilst in the UK and not really want anything else out of this, so ye sit down and lay your cards in front of him and see what he plays back. Also these sorts of relationships have been known to work that is if both parties want the same thing.
Goodluck and be strong!
2006-11-15 23:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by Rui C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say "we have this amazing connection and everytime we together it just gets stronger" Surely this is enough to know you should be with him.x
2006-11-15 23:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What could be wrong with that? You fear you'll get hurt when he leaves? Even if you were to stop seeing him today you'll still get hurt, better make the most of it before he goes. Even if it means going there seven days a week
2006-11-15 23:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah why not..life is short so you dont get much chances to be really happy(or is that just my world?) id keep seeing him..but remmber its because he IS GOING that makes it seem even more special...if he was just some guy you met that lived accross twon, it wouldnt be the same trust me..just go withg it, then maybe you can go oiut and see him if your serious (or carzy enough) other wise id find somone a bit closer to home..'its holiday romance' as they say in ibiza
2006-11-15 22:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart chick thats all you can really do. But be prepared for heartache when he leaves. Make sure you stay in contact with him, get his mobile number (he has in america) and email address. As for the age thing, age doesnt matter.....
Take care
2006-11-15 23:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm this ones difficult because ive never experienced this. i think theres no point getting attatched but it sounds like you really like this guy. and women jst have stronger feelings than men. i would tell him what your feeling if you havent already and see how he feels. is he married? have kids? he might have another life back home. maby if you wanted to you could move back with him. what have you got to loose? just go for it!!!
2006-11-15 22:59:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f you think you can both cope with getting even more attached to each other then i would say you go for it girl. Also with reference to age it depends how old you are. If you are over 18 i would say thats fine
2006-11-15 22:59:01 · answer #9 · answered by samwirral77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better to regret the things you have done, than to regret the things you haven`t.
Keep seeing him, just don`t get too attached, if he`s leaving soon, enjoy it
2006-11-15 22:58:10 · answer #10 · answered by Pete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋