... to call? Met a guy a few weeks back, saw him last friday and went for a drink. heard from him sat and again on sunday. tried to call him monday and he text saying he couldnt talk as he was going to visit his grandad in hospital. havent heard from him since? is he not interested? should i wait for him to call? should i call him? when i did hear fromhim, he was all like kisses and calling me sweet heart etc??
2006-11-15 22:22:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really think his family issues might be keeping him busy?
2006-11-15 22:27:33 · update #1
How does one spell "gullible"?
2006-11-15 22:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a lovely person, and some guys don't see that and wouldn't appreciate you for who you are. much of the guys to day use and abuse and think it is fun. when the chase a girl and later get them they sometimes loose interest and become insensitive.
however not all guys are like this, call him and let him give it to you straight, does he like you or not. if not then he could have lost something precious.
in my opinion as a guy if i like a girl and she is interested i would want to spend as much time with her as possible, and if i cant the on the phone. but that my perception which could be different from of the the silly guys out there, who just to have sex but can't comprehend a relationship
2006-11-16 06:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by blade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think just lay off a bit. He's clearly very involved in a family thing so doesn't really have the time to give you his full attention. If he does get back in touch then i'm sure things will work out by the sounds of it. I don't think you should hold it against him this time though!
2006-11-16 06:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by gorgeous_ami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys have a habit of saying sweetheart and all those goody stuff to impress girls don't get carried away by that and give him calls and meet him more so that u come to know whether he is interested in u or not if he doesn't attend ur calls or does'nt reply t ur texts than he is not interested in u. u urself can find out about it
WISH U THE BEST
2006-11-16 06:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by mayu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better that you come back to yourself. Its not a wise step just to wonder behind echos. The bitter reality is that if you start respecting yourself, determind to keep and maintain your dignity, grace and dont run after others, believe the people will start walking after you.
2006-11-16 06:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, sounds like a 'get-out' to me. He's got your number, and he knows you're interested... if he wants to call you and keep it going he will. Try not to be needy! Nothing turns people off faster. Easier said than done, I know...
2006-11-16 06:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, the guy's dealing with a family matter. Obviously he's a little busy. Don't take it personally.
2006-11-16 06:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh... it's just been a few days. I'd say... if you don't hear from him in a weeks time shoot him a text (just because you never know what happened with his grandfather). From there leave it up to him.
2006-11-16 06:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me he's a player, old story going to visit the someone in the hosp, is old maybe not interested even if he is you shouldn't be that's how he will treat you , if you did get with him.. don't wait for no man's call.
2006-11-16 06:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by silkieladyinthecity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text him back and tell him you hope his grandad is ok, and everything is well.....can't wait to hear from you again. I'm here for you if you need to talk.
2006-11-16 06:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by Krissy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps his grandad has taken a turn for the worse or even died.
He's got other things on his mind right now.
Text him and say can we meet up sometime.
2006-11-16 06:27:20 · answer #11 · answered by Isabelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋