i really like this guy who has been chasing me for ages. we are not dating. we only meet up if we are in town together-which can be weeks or even months!!(we live in different places)
he always pays me compliments and wants to be around me when we are together etc...
we have only met a few times and kissed eachother but he wanted to take things further. i said no. he is still chasing me tho. is he really interested or is he just after the sex?
he doesnt text me loads, its just every now and then.sometimes not for weeks!!!
its can be weeks even months before we eventually end up in town on the same nite!
why keep in contact with me this long if it just about getting me into bed?
2006-11-15 20:56:36 · 10 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we only meet by chance.
he knows ive just come out of a serious relationship.
2006-11-15 20:57:20 · update #1
Hey just let it roll he does like you and you are happy when you are with him just let things take their course and am sure things will turn out well.I mean you have nothing to losse.all you have to make sure is the fact that you are happy and u are urself that is what is most important.
2006-11-15 21:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're meeting up only by chance, I wouldn't consider that he's 'chasing' you, it sound like he's just trying to take advantage of the situation when you do actually meet.
Try arranging some meetings/dates and see how keen he is, that should give you your answer!
2006-11-16 07:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by toscamo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not your guy so I am only speaking for myself.
When I really like a girl I will try to get as much time to spend with her. My ex lived 300 miles away; I used to drive there every week just to spend a weekend with her.
And I talk to her on the phone everyday.
It appears to me he is not that serious but it is just my opinion.
2006-11-16 05:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by flyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gets you into bed it is surely up to you !
Ask him to meet you and talk the situation over,don't rush into a relationship after just having come out of one , you are vulnerable !
You could just have a nice easy friendly relationship !
2006-11-16 05:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just after the sex. Sad but true.
If he wants to go out with you, he'd have asked you out.
Read this book "He's just not that into you!" - can't remember the author but look it up on Amazon. I wish I'd read it when I was younger.
Men like this prey onyour self confidence.
2006-11-16 05:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly most guys are just into sex, though the ones who are from the heart never leave a girl. and this guy seems to want to be with you, and the distant messages from time to time might not be on purpose. i think he might want to be with you, and if you just got out of a serious relationship and he might not be pushing you too much to push you away completely. and it is best to meet by chance then to be looking for it. i say enjoy him, and welcome him closer to your heart. he seems geniune, i am a guy and plus i am very judgmental of men and i feel its a safe chance, good luck sweetie
2006-11-16 05:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Inferno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he does like you but he is only keeping in touch cos he knows that one day he will get you and have sex and for him that would probably be the end of it. I think he sees you as a bit of a challenge.
2006-11-16 05:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that a guy only texts me when he's thinking of me.
If he doesn't think of me-he's not texting me.
It's simple,but I have a hard time if it's a guy I like.
2006-11-16 05:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, I dont think he is serious about it. He's going for the sex of course. Beware
2006-11-16 04:59:09 · answer #9 · answered by Edgar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who will be reliable, and supportive, give him a few tests of his character, if someone is genuine, they'll understand.
2006-11-16 05:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋