I have been with my gf for 3 months and i think we realy had a great time. We always had fun and laughed together.
I was realy happy afcourse to have a gf and we started kissing at like after a month (tonge). We did it like very weekend cuz thats the only time of week i saw her. We slept at eachothers home every weekend (we had 2 separated beds). But after 1,5 month or so we slept together in the same bed, just kissing and then sleeping etc nothing more.
When we were 3 month together we went on a short holiday for a week, we had a great time. Then i started to finger her etc and think she liked it. When we got back home she was the weekend at my place and we "tried" to have real sex, but it didnt work out. We both wanted it but i could not get it in somehow.
A week later we went out and when we got back she didnt want me to sleep next to her... same week we went to a concert had lot of fun and be4 the next weekend she breaks up with me. Teling me she dont love me anymore, why?
2006-11-15 20:27:06 · 12 answers · asked by _Ace_ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry dude but that story was the funniest sad story i've ever read.
but let me give you some advice about girls. especially girls that are that young. sex with them is very tricky a very few girls enjoy real sex at that age. mostly, i think, because they have sex with guys that are the same age and guys that age, not only do they not know how to please a girl in bed, but most of them cant even figure out how to get it in.
she broke up with you because she was disappointed. she had these preconceived ideas about how sex would be and then it turned out to be nothing like what she thought. As i'm sure it was nothing like you thought. however us guys are willing to give it the ol' college try again. but girls take things like that as signs. and when the "sex" wasnt good she took it as a bad sign.
but it wasnt your fault, well no more your fault then it was her fault cause the "sex" wasnt good for you either.
and dont worry about it. I know you liked her and she will always be special to you but honestly there are more than enough girls out there. and you will find one, soon, that will make you feel the same way if not better.
but i would suggest talking to your father or a trusted REAL man about sex. they can help you get around the problems the most first timers have. and here is a little tip. if you have to guess if a girl liked something you did, then she probably didn't like it. you will know when she does. TRUST ME. she WILL let you know when she likes it.
2006-11-15 20:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by zerohour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex for the first time is actually a big deal for some people. I think she felt pressured and felt strange and uncomfortable afterwards.
I guess she just wants to take it slow. I suggest that you try to talk to her and be as sensitive as you can be when you ask her why she broke up with you. If my guess was right then tell her that you will take it slow and that she has full control of how far to go and only when she's ready.
2006-11-15 20:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving too fast for her? Sorry but you will have to approach her privately. Assume that you two are moving too fast and immediately explained to her that you'll take it slow. Say actually this to her, it works everytime
"Baby I'm sorry that I hurted you and I didn't mean to. I won't do it again. I really care about you. You mean so much me and I want to make things right again. Please give me another chance, beautiful."
Make sure to give her some flowers, Romeo.
2006-11-15 20:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by Vanessa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know how old you 2 are,but it sounds like it to me,she doesn't really want it to further to sex. But since it has wen this far she just doesn't know how to tell you she's not ready for the sex. Becasuse she has already let it get this far. And maybe she thinks you want her for just sex.
2006-11-15 20:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mother of 2 girls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her.
She may feel scared,and sex can be a big step-
Don't beat yourself up over it.
I know it hurts your feelings,but it probably has nothing to do with you.
Girls are fickle sometimes.
You have a right to ask her,but she may not give you the answer.
Good luck to you.
2006-11-15 20:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is really no explanation , she just isnt really interested anymore, and she wants to explore more, she might have been bored, or that you cannot keep up with her, or she can no longer keep up with you, anyway move on]
or more so ask her what was wrong with you
2006-11-15 20:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its anything you did bro. it just wasnt meant to be..
i wouldnt worry about it too much if you only dated her for a few months. you'll find a better girl that appreciates you for you!
2006-11-15 20:34:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with her and find out why she doesnt anymore! its the only way your ever going to find out
2006-11-15 20:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you got too close- you would have to ask her why- D
2006-11-15 20:32:38 · answer #9 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to her, and ask her what ent wrong. do u think she found someone else
2006-11-15 20:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by dark^wishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋