Is the fact that everybody stares at me in public a good thing or a bad thing?

Answer 1

Try to find out why. If you are attractive, that's a good thing. If your hair is green and your tongue is pierced, it's a bad thing

Answer 2

Now that you know people do stare at you, and you need to know whether its a good thing or a bad thing, you need to first find out why. Its as simple as that. You might be really attractive, and it could be the way you carry yourself that make pple stare at you. So you should actually feel good about it. Now unless you are behaving or dressed in a really bizzare way, could also be a reason, which I doubt you must be. Whats good for you is good for you. So let them stare on. Everything we do may not be approved by everyone around us. You may dress, or look the way you feel like, and thats the way you are. So whether its admiration or criticism, you really need not worry, as long as you arent doing anything socially bizarre. Or could it be that you are just a bit paranoid and it ''looks'' as if ''everyone'' is staring, when probably if you just look around just ''some people'' only may be staring at you ?

So, coming back to the question, the question itself has to be answered by you. Unless you really look into urself, none of us would know, would we ?

Answer 3

First of all, who is 'everybody'? It's truly doubtful,for instance, that EVERYONE in a crowded mall would be totally focused on you! But if you do find yourself garnering unwanted attention, some close personal examination as to whether you're doing anything to cause it might be in order. Are you being overly loud, are you dressing in an outlandish way, are you walking in a provocative manner, etc.?

There's nothing wrong with people paying attention to your presence if that's what you're after, but if folks' staring is making you uncomfortable and you don't know why it's happening, ask a few friends who care enough to give you their honest opinions.

To paraphrase something that Robert Burns said, "Of all the gifts the gods can give us is to see ourselves as others see us". Very, very true!!!

Answer 4

I get that alot too.

As annoying it can get, you rather not get angry over a trival matter like staring. Unless, someone is looking at you like a pervert, perhaps you should quickly walk away or if you're brave enough confront the person!

Most probably the stares come about cos you're attractive, or your sense of dressing is better than their's hence the stare!

You should be flattered!

Answer 5

Be original, stand out in a crowd, follow your heart, let people stare, if you are beautiful on the outside, then you know why, if you are beautiful on the inside, all the better.
Celebrate life, be yourself, and don't care who stares.
Get people to love who love you back, not much else matters.
Have a great thanksgiving.

Answer 6

It's fine if you're in a good mood, bad if you're feeling paranoid, and super if you are an exhibitionist.

If you are feeling uncomfortable about something or about the situation, nothing feels better than being able to talk about it with someone.

Take care!

Answer 7

It depends on you, have you got a conscience? I think you have. I don't think people stare at you, you've got a complex, paranoia, therefore you think that everybody is staring at you. Perhaps you're staring at them?

Answer 8

Ofcourse it is a good thing,but depends upon the look itself towards you is it by respect or
admire ,love hate or what?

Answer 9

It really depends...so I have no idea what to answer you. If you enjoy attention, it's a good thing. If you don't like it...it's obviously not good for you. That's all I can say.

Answer 10

If you act paranoid, people will stare at you. It becomes a self-fullfilling prophesy.